HAPPY VALENTINE DAY

LOVE POETRY

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I think that I have found
Upon this wondrous ground
A friend for life, a love
Who is a touch above

Life's mediocrities
That blow in different seas
These special ones on earth
Who've been that way since birth

They touch lightly your heart
And never must you part,
For when you see their eyes
There can be no good-byes

So walk this way with me
Along this pathway free,
I shall not bind or tie
Our love or it would die
The way you turn me on
Is like the switch of a light
Because when I see you
I think: What a sight!
You brighten things up
Throughout the whole day
And when you're about to leave
I say to myself: Please stay

Some day you might be my lover
Some day you might be my friend
Whichever one comes first
I hope will never end
Although I don't really know you
You mean a ton to me
A ton as big as heaven
Is what I want you to see.

Now I'm not sure you're single
You might be happily in love
Whomever he might be
He is very lucky
If there's no one to fulfill
That great big happiness
That brings such great a feeling
Of sweet and joy and bless
I would be the one
To bring that all to you
I'll always do you right
If you want me to.
A rose for you

Contributed by Eldora04@aol.com
The day of love requires a companion,
But I find myself at this time all alone.
Words of sweet affection fill the morning
Like bells outside the windows of my room.

I don't know why I don't have someone with me.
I've loved and been loved through the restless years.
The mysteries of love I hold within me
Are a darkness unrelieved by moon and stars.

And yet I feel more love than I have ever
Felt within the circle of a kiss.
Love need not be a passion or a fever,
Nor does it need a hand for its caress.

Love does not require a companion.
It doesn't need an object or a home.
It flies above the ecstasy of morning
And fills the universe inside my room.
?webmaster@poemsforfree.com

It is almost here, that special time of year.
When hearts and flowers by the hours are
brought to all who seek; When kisses swirl
and words do peak into little tuffs of cotton
(candy) my sweet. So be my love and be my
own and call me on the telephone or send a
card, that is not hard, right to my waiting door,
and I'll be yours forevermore

Love Verses and Poems by Famous Poets

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Welcome to the famous poems and verses page. Poems expresses your feelings, in a very special and elegant way, and in a few words. We have tried to present a good collection of poems to you, and we are sure that you will like them. We also thank those who sent there poems to us for publishing

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need; by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,--I love thee with the breath.
Smiles, tears, of all my life!--and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Elizabeth Barrnett Browning

She walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies,
And all that's best of dark and bright,
Meet in the aspect and her eyes;
Thus mellow'd to that tender light
Which heaven and gaudy day denies.

Lord Byron

If ever two were one, then surely we.
If ever man were lov'd by wife, then thee;
If ever wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me ye women you can
I prize thy love more than whole mines og Gold.
Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that rivers cannot quench,
Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense.
Thy love is such I can no way repay,
The heavens reward thee manifold repay,
Then while we live, in love let's so persevere
That when we live no more, we may live ever.

Ann Bradstreet

All love, at first, like generous wine,
Ferments and frets until 'tis fine,
But, when 'tis settled on the lee,
And from th' impurer matter free,
Becomes the richer still the older,
And Proves the pleasanter the colder

Samuel Butler
Deare, when I from thee am gone,
Gone are all my joyes at once;
I loved thee, and thee alone,
In those love I joyed once,
And although your sights I leave,
Sight wherein my joyes do lie,
Till that death do sense bereave,
Never shall affection die.
John Downland

Through all eternity to thee
A joyful song I'll raise,
For oh! Eternity is too short
To utter all thy praise.

Joseph Addison
Never so happily in one
Did heaven and earth combine;
And yet 'tis flesh and blood alone
That makes her so divine
Thomas D'Urfey

O, my luve's like a red red rose
That's newly sprung in June
O my luve's like a melodie
That's sweetly played in tune
Robert Burns
I love thee, I love thee,
'Tis all that I can say;
It is my vision in the night,
My dreaming in the day.
Thomas Hood

What's in a name ? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called.
William Shakespeare

VALENTINE POEMS

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Is it really love?
or is it just a passing feeling
am I not convinced?
a bit uncertain of the feeling

Is it the way you make me feel?
so warm with joy and laughter
or could it be the happiness
from moments spent together

The lasting bliss, the kiss I miss,
The sweetest thoughts without a touch
The heart that hurts and bears a scar
thinking how far away you are

You're on my mind most of the day
And at night I go to bed and pray
An angel soft and gentle as you
Would make my sweetest dreams come true

Thinking about you alone or in class
Writing your name on my bathroom window glass
Wishing you were here
To love hold and care
Wishing I had you with me
To cherish and to stare

Into your soft and beautiful eyes
As we both travel to the skies
And mingle with the stars above
But is it really love?

I miss you terribly this day of love,

Miss you with a wound that stabs and aches.
I see the love around me, and it takes
So much strength simply just to move.
Soon, soon, my love, this waiting will be done.

You and I will have what we desire.
On days like this we'll sit beside the fire,
Undoing all the pain of days long gone.

Valentine's Day is a day of love
Where love is as bright as the sun
We share kisses, and even a hug
With people we call our loved ones
Unrequited love is oh! so harsh
When the one you love doesn't love you
You feel you're left standing in the dark
Wishing this reality were untrue
Well that's why Valentine's Day is so great
It encourages you to show you care
It makes you just wanna say
I love you and will always be there
I once loved someone in this way
And I was encouraged on Valentine's
I went up to him, just to say
I would like you to be mine
-Candice

December 22-23, 2004

I woke up in a white room
with white lace curtains.
Snow covered landscape;
I'm in Memphis for certain

Yesterday, it took over three hours
just to travel the last twenty miles.
But nothing is like my wife's family
always being greeted with smiles

I was hoping for a White Christmas.
You'd be surprise how simple I am.
Be careful what you wish for
God may be listening to your plan.

Most of the nation is covered
with that dangerous and beautiful thing
I am grateful for arriving safely
for my wife's happiness is everything.

She wanted to see her family,
her father, uncles and aunts.
I've kept her in Southwest Texas too long;
this trip I most willingly grant.

So, here we are now
in a snowy southern wonderland.
Waiting for Christmas dinner to come;
a present only my wife can understand

-by Juan Manuel Perez

TAGORE SELECTED LOVE POEMS

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THE TAME BIRD WAS IN A CAGE
by: Rabindranath Tagore (1861-1941)

THE tame bird was in a cage, the free bird was in the forest.
They met when the time came, it was a decree of fate.
The free bird cries, "O my love, let us fly to the wood."
The cage bird whispers, "Come hither, let us both live in the cage."
Says the free bird, "Among bars, where is there room to spread one's wings?"
"Alas," cries the caged bird, "I should not know where to sit perched in the sky."

The free bird cries, "My darling, sing the songs of the woodlands."
The cage bird sings, "Sit by my side, I'll teach you the speech of the learned."
The forest bird cries, "No, ah no! songs can never be taught."
The cage bird says, "Alas for me, I know not the songs of the woodlands."

There love is intense with longing, but they never can fly wing to wing.
Through the bars of the cage they look, and vain is their wish to know each other.
They flutter their wings in yearning, and sing, "Come closer, my love!"
The free bird cries, "It cannot be, I fear the closed doors of the cage."
The cage bird whispers, "Alas, my wings are powerless and dead."

UNENDING LOVE

by: Rabindranath Tagore

I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times...
In life after life, in age after age, forever.
My spellbound heart has made and remade the necklace of songs,
That you take as a gift, wear round your neck in your many forms,
In life after life, in age after age, forever.

Whenever I hear old chronicles of love, it's age old pain,
It's ancient tale of being apart or together.
As I stare on and on into the past, in the end you emerge,
Clad in the light of a pole-star, piercing the darkness of time.
You become an image of what is remembered forever.

You and I have floated here on the stream that brings from the fount.
At the heart of time, love of one for another.
We have played along side millions of lovers,
Shared in the same shy sweetness of meeting,
the distressful tears of farewell,
Old love but in shapes that renew and renew forever.

FIREFLIES

by: Rabindranath Tagore

I touch God in my song as the hill touches the far-away sea with its waterfall.

The butterfly counts not months but moments,and has time enough.
Let my love, like sunlight, surround you and yet give you illumined freedom.

Love remains a secret even when spoken, for only a lover truly knows that he is loved.
Emancipation from the bondage of the soil is no freedom for the tree.
In love I pay my endless debt to thee
for what thou art.

THE GARDENER

by: Rabindranath Tagore

If you would have it so,
I will end my singing.

If it sets your heart aflutter,
I will take away my eyes from your face.

If it suddenly startles you in your walk,
I will step aside and take another path.

If it confuses you in your flower-weaving,
I will shun your lonely garden.

If it makes the water wanton and wild,
I will not row my boat by your bank.

THE CHILD ANGEL

by: Rabindranath Tagore

Let your life come amongst them like a flame of light, my child,
unflickering and pure, and delight them into silence.

They are cruel in their greed and their envy,
their words are like hidden knives thirsting for blood.

Go and stand amidst their scowling hearts, my child,
and let your gentle eyes fall upon them like the
forgiving peace of the evening over the strife of the day.

Let them see your face, my child, and thus know the
meaning of all things, let them love you and love each other.

Come and take your seat in the bosom of the limitless, my child.
At sunrise open and raise your heart like a blossoming flower,
and at sunset bend your head and in silence
complete the worship of the day.

VALENTINE WALLPAPERS

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Things to keep in mind when giving a Valentine’s Day’s gift

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Valentine’s Day is approaching very quickly, prompting many people to think about appropriate gifts for the occasion. Many people believe it’s the most romantic day of the year whereas some others term it as a rather overly commercialized nightmare. Whatever your viewpoint is, you invariably need to prepare for this day as you cannot remain untouched by the romance in the air on the 14th of February.
With a bit of planning and innovative thinking, you can ensure a fun-filled and romantic Valentine’s Day. Instead of pushing a rushed delivery of flowers, or last-minute reservation request at a restaurant, think of your gift and locate your favorite romantic spot well in advance.

Tastes of different persons obviously are different, and there’s no such a thing as ideal Valentine’s gift idea. Buying a set of soft silk sheets in conventional colors like dark maroon or silver would make a good gift. It can be bought at any branded linen or upholstery showroom. Dress your bed and decorate a vase on a bedside table with some fresh flowers. When your lover walks in, he or she will get a real surprise!

Love charts its own undefined course. It varies in intensity and shades. Give him or her Valentine’s Day gifts to match your level of involvement and the intensity of your love. Your gift should not pass the wrong message.

To elaborate a bit, it should not denote that you are fully committed and sure of him as your guy or gal, when you are actually not! In fact, a deciding factor in what you gift should be how committed both of you are to each other.

If your relationship is nascent or you aren’t’ really sure of your committed, be content with gifting the easy candy or flowers. If you’re serious about the relationship, be more thoughtful and choose a gift with greater care so that he or she appreciates your gesture and accepts the apparent or subtle message regarding your desire for long term relationships.

Valentine’s Day gifts carry different connotations and associations for each person, and there is no such a thing as perfect Valentine’s gift idea. It all depends on the state, shade and depth of your relationship!

The thoughtful gift is the one that counts. Take the effort to get clues for what she or he really aspires for. This well might be a genre of book or music that they had mentioned as their choice. If they love collecting, get something worthy for their collectibles’ shelf.

Some tried and tested gift ideas for Valentine’s Day

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What is going to work this year? Well here are a few simple and inexpensive ideas that will warm the hearts of both sides and they work every time. Even though these unique gift ideas are sometimes common it is what guys and girls love to get as a gift for Valentines Day.

Here are some tried and tested gift ideas for Valentine’s Day:-

A well arranged bouquet of flowers

A well arranged bouquet of flowers with a nice note is the safest bet. It always works. Find out about your lover’s floral preferences. Lilies and Tulips are among the more popular choices. And, of course, the rose! Keep in mind the connotations and meanings attached with colors before you pick the flowers.

• White: Innocence, reverence, purity
• Yellow: Joy
• Red and White: Unity
• Red: Love, respect
• Pink: Grace, gentility
• Orange: Desire
• Two red roses joined together: Engagement or marriage (use it carefully)!
• Rose buds: Beauty, youth

Silk flowers & plants make a good gift idea since they last forever just like your love for him or her.

Chocolates

This one invariably works since it spells out sensuality. Nothing indeed melts a heart like Valentines Day chocolate. Keep in mind the taste of your sweetheart and whether he or she prefers dark chocolate, milk chocolate, chocolate truffles or nutty chocolate. They all send a message of love.

Jewelry

his is an idea that will invariably work for any women! Rings, earrings, watches, bracelets and necklaces all work! It may be a bit costly but nothing turns on the charm quite as much as a rich piece of jewelry. Opt for a simple pendant on a shining silver chain for a even more elegant look.

Perfumes

If she has a particular scent, find out what that perfume is! Talk to one of her friends on her choice of perfume. If you cannot figure out which perfume she likes, or she usually buys, simply stick to the more conventional, popular brands. Even men love a good fragrance. Pay attention to the perfume bottle. It should be stylish.

Bonsai

This ranks high on the novelty scale. It is synonymous with recent albeit deep relationships. You can also gift small plants etc. Avoid gifting cacti for obvious reasons!

Candle stand

It’s not as inane as it appears. Especially females are fond of candles. You can select some innovative designs on gift stores like those crafted of wrought iron or pewter. It would be a good idea adding scented candles.

A coffee maker

This ranks high on scale of practicality especially if he or she loves a hot cuppa. It’s a perfect gift if your best buddy is living as a paying guest or sharing an apartment with others. This will make sure that your best mate thinks of you with hot coffee every morning.

Hopefully these great Valentine’s Day gift ideas we have provided will help you bring a smile on your lover’s face this Valentine’s Day

Some more curious facts about Valentine’s Day

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The different legends about Valentine’s Day only emphasize his appeal as a heroic and romantic figure. Let’s know about some more curious facts about Valentine’s Day

Today, at least three different saints named Valentinus or Valentine are recognized by the Catholic Church. Incidentally, all of them were martyred.

Some think that the day is celebrated to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine’s burial or death that probably occurred around 270 A.D. Others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine’s feast day in February to ‘christianize’ the pagan Lupercalia festive celebrations.

In the UK, the day began to be celebrated on mass-scale around the 17th century. By the middle of the 18th century, it became common for lovers and friends in all social strata to exchange tokens of affection or handwritten notes.
Later, printed cards replaced handwritten notes owing to upgrading printing technology. Ready-made cards turned an easy means for people to convey their emotions in a time when direct expression of one’s sentiments was not encouraged.
Americans probably started exchange of hand-made valentines in the beginning of the 18th century.

Valentine greetings used to be popular even in the Middle Ages (written Valentine’s didn’t start to appear till after 1400).
The oldest known Valentine card is displayed at the British Museum.
Esther A. Howland. Howland created the first commercial Valentine’s Day greeting card in the 1840s in the US.

Valentine Symbols

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Symbols are sometimes better than words and valentine symbols can work wonder as Valentine’s Day gifts when they are endowed with series of meanings comprehensible only to the ones who are in love. So the scholars of the romance world use these valentine symbols as medium for expressing and intensifying love. And if you are thinking that the use valentine symbols has only started with Valentine’s Day flowers or cupid pictures or heart symbols, nothing can be less further from the truth. Dolphins, pendants, crystal ornaments and butterflies were some of the popular valentine symbols, which were used, in the earlier times.

With the passage of time, Valentine symbols have undergone changes and new and more romantic symbols have come to replace the old ones. Some of the new Valentine symbols are Heart, cupid, rose flower, love knot, lovebirds and doves. So enchant your darling by giving some personalized Valentine’s Day gifts in the form of some of the most romantic Valentine symbols and express your love in one of the most elegant ways.
Romantic Roses
'Oh, my love is a red, red rose' ~ Poets and scholars have likened the beauty of their sweethearts to that of roses. Rose, as the queen of flowers, symbolizes peace and war, love and forgiveness. Valentine's Day is a time to send flowers and gifts to your loved ones but beware! Some of these beautiful messengers may transmit wrong messages. Take the most common flowers, roses for instance. There are formal meanings of different colored roses in some cultures. Each of these meanings is still used in society today, so choose your color with care. White roses are for true love and purity of the mind. Red roses are for love and passion. Yellow roses are for friendship. Black roses mean farewell. Pink roses mean friendship or sweetheart. So pick up the right Valentine’s Day flowers this time to tell all that you wanted to say.

Cupid

Cupid, the mischievous son of the Goddess of Love, Venus, is supposedly responsible for people falling in love. According to the myths, anyone being hit by Cupid's arrow falls in love with the first person he/she sees. His mischievous intentions have led to some entertaining situations in various legends. Cupid in the Roman mythology has Eros, the son of Aphrodite, as his counterpart in the Greek Myths. The names of both these Gods are used synonymously with the concept of love today. Ribbons, Laces and Frills

Ribbons, laces and frills as perfect Valentine symbols have been used since the ancient times of knights and nobles who used to wear the scarf adorned with ribbons, laces and frills specially prepared by their beloveds. Since then the ribbons, laces and frills have been used for symbolizing love in one of the most graceful ways.

Love Knot

Young women in strict Muslim households used to send their pledges of love to young men through messages woven through the knots of a carpet in an Arab tradition. This tradition of sending messages through the knots gave birth to the concept of love knots that continues to this day.

Hearts

To a beloved, there is no symbol as important as the heart. To give someone one's heart means to give to him or her one's whole being, for the heart is at the center of one's existence. The heart stands for the most profound and noblest of human emotions- that of love. Through ages, it has inspired millions to rise above the mundane cares and to get lost in the thought of their beloved. Thus a heart, pierced by the cupid's arrow, has become the most famous of the valentine's symbols.

Love Birds and Doves

It was believed that on this romantic day, birds found their mates. This belief is still cherished by love struck people all over the world. The sweet little blue coloured lovebirds have come to signify that belief. It is said that the lovebirds can't live without their mates. Dove, in the Christian belief signifies purity, meekness and innocence. Hence, these two birds have become the most endearing symbols of the spirit of Valentine’s Day.

Love At First Sight

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Ever felt a smile crossing across your face when a face breezes by you? The world seems more beautiful, the weather always perfect and your dream girl or guy the most wonderful person on this planet. If you are feeling all these and searching for valentine’s day ideas or a person for flower delivery for some time now; then let me tell you my friend, you are in love.

It can happen to anybody at any place, on any day. At first you fall in love or get attracted to the physical being of a person. As it is said appearance does matter.

After all that’s all one sees when it’s the case of love at first sight. Something catches your attention, like her smile, his physique or the enchanting eyes.

The mood also plays an important role in sealing the perfect moment. If you are tired, sad, angry or irritated your dream man or girl may pass you by without you even glancing back. The nature conspires to bring lovers closer. Also you should be open in your mind to receive love.

It’s a state of mind, knocking the doors of the heart.

So how do you know that you have fallen in love? Of course things look rainbow colored from that moment but friends let’s just get sure.
You know you have fallen in love with her/him when…
You see stars in the morning! No, you haven’t banged your head but feeling the compulsion of love. Your life stops and all you can think of is her/him. You don’t seem to get anything done and every moment your sweetheart’s face comes in front of you.
You start missing your love like you haven’t seen her in ages, when actually you just said goodbye.

Your sweetheart is flawless. You overlook all her faults and weaknesses. You believe true love can overcome all. This is love at first sight.

You can’t stop smiling when your beloved is around. You are all happy and joyful. But as soon as he/she leaves, your world collapses in front of you. You become sad and depressed.

You are not a very compromising person but your sweetheart had changed you completely. Now you are more flexible and a wonderfully understanding person.

So now you know that love at first sight is very much true. Believe in love and make your emotions fly on the wings of joy. On this Valentine's Day, don’t be scared to fall in love. It’s a beautiful emotion that promises to make your world a merry go round. Just remember, love has its ups and downs. So rise with the sunshine and open your arms to the Valentine fever. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Valentine Present Ideas

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Valentine's Day is characterized by mutual exchange of gifts between lovers. Lovely valentine presents are gifted to the sweethearts on this day. Markets get flooded with beautiful Valentine's Day presents and gifts at the onset of month of February. Valentine presents are of great importance as they become beautiful memories of this special day. Every lover starts searching for a unique valentine gift for his or her beloved from well before the Valentine's Day. A present received at Valentines Day is remembered for ever. It is the perfect time to express your deeply felt love and your gift will speak on your behalf.
Boys like gifts that are useful for them, while girls love decoration items, stuffed toys, flowers and jewelry. These and many other ideas can be found from different sources. Ideas are generated by human minds only, so you can also try to come up with your own unique ideas for deciding the Valentine gift for your lover.

Selection of Valentine’s Day gifts is a tough task, as it needs lot of thinking. A gift has to be such that it augments one’s love and not diminish it. Romantic presents; if not chosen properly can also cause an adverse effect on the love relationship. For an ideal gift, start thinking about what to purchase much in advance. Only then you can find an apt gift. Romantic Valentine gifts ignite the love flame into the relationships. Sometimes a bunch of roses can be perfect but sometimes an expensive diamond ring might not do the trick. It all depends upon the likes, dislikes and interests of the receiver of the gift. Many females like stuffed toys very much, so their lover – knowing about their affinity towards stuffed toys must give them with a cute one on Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching! Good luck with your search for Valentine presents…

flirting eyes contact

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Flirting is a spontaneous and natural instinct of human beings and occurs as a normal response to somebody you find appealing. This natural way of expressing interest in someone you like can convert into friendship or love though not necessarily. Flirt efficiently by means of flirting gestures like eye contact so that the person is irresistibly drawn to you. There are a very few intelligent people who can flirt confidently and create good feelings in others as well in themselves. Flirting is a signaling mechanism and we all are gifted with the power of signaling but it's very important to know how to send the correct signals and also how the signals sent by you are affecting others. Use flirting as your communication tool for giving the proper signal but make sure that none of your words or gestures makes way to some wrong message.

Take it as a fun and enjoy this game to draw someone's attention and have a good time. To flirt you should have the knack of conveying that you like someone and once you are able to make him/her know that he/she seems to be interesting to you then that person will be more tempted to like you. To convey that you like someone, you need to use a combination of your words and flirting gestures. Our body can send send some very powerful signals instinctively to pave the way for flirting. Among the non-verbal signals eye contact probably plays the most significant role in flirting. With eye contact you can speak a thousand words with your eyes without a word ever crossing your lips.

Use eyes as your most important flirting tool. If you know how look at another person and captivate him/her with your moving glances then you can surely make your flirtation successful and enjoyable. Brief glances directly into the eyes of the person you want to flirt with is a very powerful tool in flirtation. Even in a crowded party you can attract someone towards you by an inviting gaze. Your glances can be accompanied with your gentle smile. The woman's eyes rest momentarily on a likely man and then willingly she looks away as she notices his look. Once you are sure about the other person's interest make eye contact again and again to start the conversation. During conversation glance at her face frequently,glance away when you are speaking and keep on making brief eye contacts. Don't overdo the eye contact or stare offensively- this can make the other person feel uncomfortable. Look on her face gently to reveal your inner goodness.

Flirting gestures

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Flirting gestures
Flirting is an art of revealing your positive aspects through your talk and gestures so that the people you want to draw attention are irresistibly attracted by you. You can use this natural gift of flirting which nature presented us since our birth. Just like other human actions flirting is guided by some unwritten rules or laws which we follow instinctively. You can't deny this essential and universal quality of human interaction. Use flirting as your communication tool for giving the proper signal but before that you must know how how do your words and gestures are affecting others and the art of giving the correct signal so that none of your signals makes way to some wrong message.

Tips and Ideas for Flirting
Flirting is far more than just a bit of fun .A good flirt can create a very positive effect on people as they are creating good feelings in others, whoever they want to. Even a smile or some good words can be an excellent way of flirting if you know how to do it and then choose the proper way of using it. Usually those people who are a good communicator are good in flirting. Appreciate the person you want to flirt with but be careful that the attributes or appraisal suits on them because people don't like insincere person. Try the following flirting gestures and learn to flirt successfully to see how the world presents before you fun,happiness and love.

Flirting gesture 1: Give direct eye contact with proper facial expressions to convey the emotional message. Learn to deliver it well to have the desired impact. The woman's eyes rest momentarily on a likely man and then willingly she looks away as she notices his look.

Flirting gesture 2: Send some subtle,subconscious signals such as woman's pushing her finger through her hair when first meeting a man.

Flirting gesture 3: Casual touches such as a woman gently touching a man's arm during conversation.

Flirting gesture 4:Smiling suggestively to have a favor or approval or to express cheerful acceptance.

Flirting gesture 5:Winking: Do it in proper way to convey a message to give a correct signal.

Flirting gesture 6:Sending notes,poems or small gifts to impress the person.

Flirting gesture 7:Whisper: Specially the women lean over and speak into her friend's ear.

Flirting gesture 8:Send short charming glances with an average of three at a time.

Flirting gesture 9:Do fondling with your keys,slide your hands up and down a glass,playing with toys or other things on the table send some very sensual message.

Flirting gesture 10:Coy smile: She gives you a kind of half smile,with a downward gaze or a very brief eye contact.

For boys,be a gentleman and go out of your way to treat her like a princess and show her that you want to be someone who strives to “be there” for her. Women love to be with charismatic guy,feel good about yourself so that others feel good about you. For women carry something that is noticeable or eye-catching,separate yourself from the group of friends so that you become more approachable

Flirting Signals

2007-08-30T13:41:00.001-07:00

Flirting Signals
Flirting is not just about giving out signals. It is more of becoming aware of what other people are doing.

Once you become more alert of your signaling methods, you can also learn to play with the gestures you give out every time you intend to impress the lovely lass beside you.

By doing so, you stand more chance of getting your message across. A successful flirt knows how to send out the Flirting signals without faltering to get the desired result.

Tips and Ideas for Flirting
Every one has his or her characteristic flirting signals. While women coil their hair or lick their lips, a man might fiddle with his tie or run his hand through his hairs. There are some commonly used signals which portends that the person is flirting. Flirting techniques depends from person to person. In order to get the desired result, one must first learn the nuances of flirting.

Be careful while you steal glances from the person you are interested in, for she or he may not take your gestures candidly. If you are desperate to get out of the ‘Friend’ zone and make an entry into the ‘Potential Lover ‘category with any woman, its time you master the art of flirting properly.Here is an index of techniques of Flirting. To know more about flirting signals go through the following flirting tips:

a)Smiling: Practice your smile in front of the mirror, so that it is big enough to be noticed. A casual grin is surely not going to help you. A big generous smile will certainly attract the concerned person’s attention. So next time you see him or her, show up with a benign smile. Its is one of the most successful non verbal flirting.

b)Getting caught looking: Most people turn back when their object of desire comes across in a party or gathering. If you really want to let that person know about your interests you are interested, do not shy away. Instead hold eye contact with her for a moment longer and then look away.

c) Waving. If you think you are staring for long at the person you are interested in, little wave meaning ‘Hello’ to him or her can save you from the embarrassment which you could have faced.

d) Winking: Winking is not advisable if you don’t know the person. If you are familiar with the person, then a quick wink as a response to a funny joke can be welcomed. Make it sure you don’t wink very often because that can send wrong signals. e) Holding eye contact: While you are talking to her, maintain eye contact with her for at least some of the time.

f) Using the Good-bye compliment: If you are one of those who are shy and do not dare to resort on the bold flirting signals, then the good-bye compliment may be just the right thing you need. On your way out, simply go up to the woman or man you want to flirt with, and say her ‘Hi’ and praise her about her dressing sense and then leave. This will leave a good impression on her mind about you.

Flirting Hints

2007-08-30T13:40:00.000-07:00

Flirting Hints
Learn to play with the gestures you give out every time you intend to impress the lovely lass beside you. By doing so, you stand more chance of getting your message across. A successful flirt knows how to send out the flirting hints without faltering to get the desired result.

Every one has his or her characteristic flirting hints. While women coil their hair or lick their lips, a man might fiddle with his tie or run his hand through his hairs. There are some commonly used signals which portends that the person is flirting. Flirting techniques depends from person to person. In order to get the desired result, one must first learn the nuances of flirting.

Tips and Ideas for Flirting
Flirting can be an exiting game if you can drop the right flirting hints at the right time. When you get to spot your amorous interest around, try to gain his or her attention by dropping the appropriate and effective flirting hints. After you locate him or her, try to figure out if he or she is showing any interest. Stare at him or her for once and then wait and watch if she or he looks back at you. Learn to study the body language of the person concerned.

If you see that the person is showing interest, smile at her or him. A benign smile can help you to bring closer. A smile followed by a wink can even head you towards your success. Be careful before you progress because a wink is a more desperate gesture. Think before you jump in to such desperation. First study her looks.

If you think she’s enough open, then you can try this trick.Now when you see her blushing at your wink, you can go up to her to say her ‘Hi’ and the rest will follow. Always remember all you need to win your date is to carry the right attitude.

Flirting Advice

2007-08-30T13:38:00.000-07:00

Flirting Advice
If you have it in you, you are a born winner. For those who hesitate, surely they need a flirting advice as their instant rescuer.

When it comes to describe flirting, it can be put as a negotiation process that takes place after there have been some initial exchange of messages. As the process continues, flirting enhances the attraction that increases in the process. The efficiency of this nonverbal flirting depends upon the flirting techniques you are using.
Tips and Ideas for Flirting

If you are a beginner, go slow in the beginning. Don’t show up everything that’s in your mind. Neither men nor women would like such an aggressive overture. It is better to leave few things for the other person to find out. Try to know if the person you are interested in is at all noticing your gestures. If you find her or him looking at you, immediately grab the opportunity to return back your glance with a smile. Don’t try to shy away, if she or he looks at you. Recognize his or her glance and send back a longer gaze with a clear benign smile. Here is a set of flirting advice to help you in those situations where you feel helpless.

Once you feel certain about this initial swap of glances, don’t dare to go to her and talk at once. Try to get along with the people she’s interacting with or put yourself near her in such a manner that you get an obvious reason to say ‘Hi’ to her. Put yourself so meticulously that it doesn’t seem to be a pre planned move.

Every move of this mission flirting should be tactful yet docile. Keep it mind that flirting signs should be clear and subtle.Now when you are quite near to her or him and you are confident, you can always say him or her ‘Hi’ and approach for a general discussion. Do not start pouring in praises at the first meet. Opt for a general topic. And when you are signing off just drop a message of admiration. That would be a smart beginning of a date.

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Is He Flirting ???

2007-08-30T13:35:00.000-07:00

Is He Flirting
If you are confused about the person’s intentions that seem to be hitting on you for quite sometime, you surely need to learn about the flirting signals. ‘Is he flirting?’ is often the question that looms around a woman’s mind, when she finds a guy staring at her, smiling and at times waving at her. If you find these gestures unusual, then its time for you to understand the nuances of flirting.

When you see the guy stealing glances, smiling at times and running his hand through his hairs every time his eyes meet yours , know that he is flirting. Do not raise your brows to such gestures. Instead enjoy this silent communication.

Here is a list of flirting tips to find out is he flirting or not. Following are activities which prove that the guy is flirting.

1.Usage of Flattery: Flattery is most effectual when there is a factor of surprise. Compliment someone when he or she expects it the least. “I didn’t know you can look so good in red”. This may be an effective catch line which you can use. Unnecessary flattery can make matters worse. So be careful while you choose your words.

2.Flirtatious Handshakes: While you are parting from the person you are interested in, shake hands with him or her. Make sure this contact of hands conveys the message you intend to deliver. Hold his or her tightly for the number of seconds you hold hands. The strength of the hold will send a silent message that you take him or her seriously.

3.Direct Eye contact: Always maintain direct eye contact. Shying away can exempt you from getting the desired result. Direct eye contact emanates confidence.

4.Repeat the name of the person: After you get introduced to the person, repeat his or her name at least three times while you converse with him or her. This will send out the message that you are interested in remembering his or her name and would like to remember it for long.

If you find that the guy is doing all the above activities with finesse, don’t question is he flirting or not. Surely he is hitting on you and you would be missing out on some fun if you do not reciprocate. To know is he flirting or not, click onMydearvalentine.com. Learn more on smiles stares, Flirting, Flirting Signals, when he says hi, smiles, Flirting techniques, Stares, Flirting gestures from this site

Is she Flirting ???

2007-08-30T13:33:00.000-07:00

Is she Flirting
Women are best at flirting. Probably they do it with more finesse and subtlety. Be careful while you are chatting with a woman. Learn her gestures. Is it just a friendly approach from her side? Is she flirting?

To know is she flirting or not you should first know the flirting signals that are often received from the women. Sharpen your senses and read on to know about the woman who’s in all smiles while you are chatting with her.The following flirting signs are good for all settings, whether in a coffee shop, restaurant, nightclub, or at work. So sharpen your senses and read on the flirting indicators to hit her back in your style.

Is she flirting? Yes, she is flirting if you see her doing the following:

If she gazes in your eyes with interest and if you see her pupils widened.

If you see her blushing

If you see her legs crossed and pointed towards you or if her same leg is dangling back and forth towards you.

If she raises or lowers the level of her voice, to match up with yours.

If she strokes her chin or feels her cheek.

If she winks at you while talking to you or from a distance.

If she expose the palms of her hand in front of you.

If you find her sitting straight up and if her muscles appear to be firm.

If she laughs in agreement with you.

If you find her touching your arm, shoulder or hand while talking to you.

If she plays with her jewelry, while she is on conversation with you.

If she curls her hair while talking to you.

If she singles you out in a big crowded area and talks only to you

If you notice too much of the fluttering of eyes.

If you see the woman engaged in most of the above mentioned activities, know for sure she’s flirting with you and that too with amazing finesse. Women can be extremely playful when it comes to flirting.

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How to know if She likes me?

2007-08-30T13:31:00.000-07:00

How to know if She likes me?
I am in love! She has completely bowled me over! It seems she is also interested in me! These lines often disturb men a lot. Women are difficult to understand. Men always get confused with the behavior of women. It is impossible for a man to read a woman's mind. On the other hand, women have an expertise in hiding their feelings. If you want to get rid from all these feelings then apply a few significant tips.

Tips to find out if She likes me or not

While talking with you, if the girl blinks her eyes frequently then she is also loves you.

In case, girl sits in front of you with crossed legs pointing towards you then it signifies that she likes you.

If the girl is frequently touching you then she is interested in you. For instance, she is touching your shoulders, hands etc. '

Biting of lips is another great significant tip to know, if she likes you or not.

Her cheeks turn pink, when you are around her. This clearly signifies that she likes you.

If she tries to raise or lower the volume of voice in accordance with you then it signifies love for you.

In case, she frequently touches her chin and cheeks then do not think twice and express your love, as she is thinking about you.

Rubbing of wrists upwards and downwards is another sign of love.

While sitting in a group, she concentrates only at you is a great indication that she likes you.

While sitting with you, she keeps playing with her jewelry is an indication of liking.

She looks at you with great interest. Her pupils also get dilated simultaneously. This is a great indication that she likes you.

How to know if She likes me?

2007-08-30T13:27:00.000-07:00

top ten fliting tips

2007-08-30T13:24:00.000-07:00

Flirting is a fun! It requires immense talent and creativity. If you want to enjoy it then apply the given below techniques.

1.Fun is always the key factor while flirting. You must be playful, spontaneous and humorous.

2.Looking directly in eyes is a great flirting feature. Gaze continuously for a while then take off your eyes from the person.

3.Frequent compliments are great way of flirting. But, it would be advisable to be honest and sincere while complimenting the person.

4.If you want to begin the conversation then a small hi or hello would be adequate.

5.Try to be good listener. It is a great art to listen others. This art will make you more likeable and charming.

6.A permanent smile on face will make you more demanding. People automatically get drawn towards you. Everyone loves a smiling face.

7.It would be advisable to act as a host, instead of guest. This feature will make you approachable and easily accessible.

8.Your attitude must be positive. Enthusiasm is another great factor while flirting.

9.If you want to be a great flirt then always approach first. You must be the first person to say hi.

10.Props are great way to begin a conversation. This would also enhance the conversation. For instance, start your conversation with dogs, jewelry, perfume etc.

gals be ready 2 flirts

2007-08-30T13:21:00.000-07:00

Ladies: Flirting 101

Every woman has a sexy flirt inside of her capable of getting a man’s attention. However, not all women carry the self confidence or know-how on bringing this flirtatious side out. Flirting plays a big part in the dating world. In fact, you cannot score a date with any man unless you give them the green light- a sign that expresses that we are interested in them. After all, women are not the only ones struggling with doubts and insecurities about themselves. Men also feel insecure and unsure on how to put themselves out there. They are afraid of reading a woman wrong, fear getting rejected and are also intimidated by women they find very attractive. So, if you see a man you think is attractive and you want to get the communication started, you have to help the boy out a little! By helping him out, you will help yourself out too- because you like him and want to talk to him, so let the flirting begin…

Flirting does not have to be very aggressive. It depends on your personality. If you naturally a shyer person, then you will want to be quieter with your flirting, but still send out a strong message. If you are not all that shy and you have a more aggressive personality, then you can be more obvious and vocal with your flirting. Here are some flirting tips you can use the next time you see a guy you want to acquaint and get to know better.

Shy Girls:

1. Make eye contact with a smile.

If you come across a man that catches your eye, look at him in the eyes and give him a gentle smile. The smile is an invitation, letting him know that you are open to be friendly with him.

2. If he smiles back, Turn Around!

Once you make contact and smile at him, the ball is in his court. He smiles back, keep walking. After a few second, slowly turn around and smile at him again. He most likely will be checking you out if he finds you attractive, so he will see this and will smile back at you again. If he has the courage, he will come up to you and start talking- and you can take it from there.

3. Swirl your feet

If you are sitting down when you see a man you like, then give him a friendly smile and swirl one of your feet around slowly if you are wearing a skirt. The smile and eye contact will let him know you are into him, but swirling your foot will draw his attention to your legs and he will be even more curious about you. Remember, men are visual creatures, so make sure he sees your physical qualities. If you are sitting but are not wearing a skirt, then you can do something else to draw his attention to your physical sexiness! For example, you could tilt your head slightly upwards and rub your neck a little, as if you do not know he is looking, but in fact he will be watching you rub your sexy neck!

Not so Shy Girls:

1. Stare and Speak!

When you see a man you like, the eye contact rule still applies, since eye contact is the most powerful tool when trying to connect with someone. However, if you are not that shy and do not mind taking a bolder step, you can also speak to him as he walks by, or as you walk by him. You can flirtingly say hello in a soft voice and smile as he says hello back, gently looking him up and down. This will make it obvious to him that you are interested, without being too aggressive and over doing it- but definitely flirty enough!

2. Start Conversation

If you are willing to make the first move and make your intentions even more obvious, without actually throwing yourself at him, you can start a conversation with him. Come up with an excuse to talk, such as asking for directions, an opinion on something- or even to borrow his pen- whatever it takes to get the two of you talking. If he is interested in you as well, you will not have to work too hard, because he will be friendly and flirty right back at you! You two can talk and then take it from there.

3. Give or Ask for Digits!

Face it- if you just ran into this guy by chance- then there I a high chance you may not see him again- unless one of you take a bold move. If you do not have a problem making bold moves, you can ask him for his phone number (if he does not beat you to it first), or you could write down your number and hand it to him with a smile. If there really is chemistry between you, then he will want to be in touch with you again- as soon as possible!

Remember: Regardless of whether you are shy or more aggressive, one of the most important and most attractive thing a woman can do is Smile! It gives a friendly vibe and shows him that you are a happy, non-threatening flirting woman. Plus, smiling brightens your face and gives him a chance to see your real beauty!

is am in love ????

2007-08-29T17:58:00.000-07:00

How to Know if You're Really in Love
It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don't know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.

One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person.

Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love. But why? What is it about lust and love that make them so easy to mix up? If lust is all about sex, how can a relationship without sex be about lust? Teens struggle with this because they see lust in the Biblical sense, but lust isn't that sinister. Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many teens (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.

Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.

1. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
5. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7. Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
8. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
9. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

12 sure fire signs that the end is near.

2007-08-29T17:57:00.000-07:00

12 sure fire signs that the end is near.
Getting dumped -- it happens to the best of us and nothing feels worse. Losing love is hard enough but add rejection to the mix and it can be devastating. When you've been dumped it feels like your world is closing in to smother you and you wonder if you will ever feel happy again. The good news is "yes" one day you will feel happy again, you will love again and the loss will become nothing more than a life experience. But when you are in the middle of it, caught in those end days of a once blossoming relationship, it can feel like the confusion will never end.
Relationships don't just end. It doesn't play that one day you are part of a happy couple floating around blissopolis only to find that the next day you are flying solo and moving in to dumpsville. Like it or not you can always see a break up coming.
There are always clues. When we sense a looming break up we often retreat in to denial and this is why actually being dumped seems like such a shock. But the reality is that anybody who is willing to look can see the writing on the wall long before the relationship actually ends. What kind of things signal that the relationship is coming to a close? Here are the 12 most common signs that the end is near.
1. S/he is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you. When you find yourself becoming less and less of a time priority, even if the reasons for the distance seem logical, it is never a good thing.
2. You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.
3. When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message. Be it a parent, sib or friend, if somebody else always seems to answer the phone and take a message you are probably being screened, and we don't screen people we want to talk to!
4. S/he says s/he is one place but is really another. People do not tend to lie for no reason, if s/he is not being honest about where s/he is or who s/he is with there is rarely a noble reason for the deception.
5. You don't seem to connect anymore. Remember how when you were first getting together you would run into each other in unexpected places, like between classes or at the mall? If these "accidental" meetings become less common place it may be no accident at all.
6. Her/his friends seem distant. When somebody wants out of a relationship they often let their friends in on the secret well ahead of time. If your steady's friends seem less friendly it is a good indicator that they know something you don't and that it probably isn't good.
7. The lovin' is gone! When affection and PDAs (public displays of affection) start to dwindle it could mean the fire of love is also going out.
8. S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend". If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.
9. You seem to be fighting a lot about little things. Lots of little fights often mean much bigger things are really at issue.
10. Kissing and telling. Respect is a relationship essential, once it has been compromised the relationship often follows suit.
11. You just can't seem to do ANYTHING right. Be it the style of your hair or the way you walk, if your steady suddenly finds fault with everything you do s/he is probably trying to push you away.
12. You aviod any conversation that begins with "we have to talk" or "I don't know how to say this." If your steady is using these opening lines a break up speech usually follows. If you are avoiding conversations that start like this it is probably because you sense that a break up is near and think that if you avoid the talk it won't happen. You are wrong. If a person wants out of a relationship they will get out whether you let them tell you or not. Avoiding this talk is just prolonging the inevitable.
Break ups can be harsh but they hurt less if you face facts rather than hide from the truth. Good luck!

5 things your girlfriend doesn’t want you to know

2007-08-29T17:50:00.000-07:00

The girlfriend code broken.
Last week we took a look at the 5 biggest secrets that boyfriends keep from their girlfriends, the 5 things we can’t let you know because it throws a real curve ball in our game. But as we all know guys aren’t the only game players in relationships. Girls play their fair share of games too. Girls play it coy, they wait for you to make moves before strategizing their own, and girls honestly don’t always say what they mean. Why? Why wouldn’t girls just tell it like it is? What do girls want from their guys? Why does it seem like girls only want the guys who treat them badly? Just what is going on in the female mind? Why won’t girls give good guys a chance? Finally we can give you some answers. Here it is, as promised, a look at the 5 things your girlfriend doesn’t want you to know as told by Love Lady Tina Kells.

We like the chase – you chasing us.
Yep, it’s sad but true that when a guy is too eager to catch us we wonder why. What is wrong with this guy? Why is he so clingy? Is he a control freak? Is he a serial dater? A player with many girlfriends on the go? Is he insane? It’s not that we don’t want to be caught, we do, we just don’t want to feel trapped and when things happen too fast trapped is how we feel. We need to be sure of our feelings and of our attraction before we can step off the racetrack and give up the chase. You need to woo us to make us yours. Some guys lay out traps, saying all the right things and meaning none of them, in an attempt to woo us and this gives way to our biggest fear; falling prey to an insincere guy who is more about the game than being in a relationship. For this reason even once we’re yours, even once we are sure of your feelings and you are sure of ours, we need to still feel a little bit of the chase. When you chase us we feel like you want us and are willing to do some work to be with us and we don’t want that feeling to go away just because you’ve caught us.
2. When we say we’re “OK” or that things are “fine” the opposite is probably true.
Girls are communicators. It is hardwired in to our psyches to talk and talk and talk some more whenever there is discord or conflict. So if you sense there’s a problem and gather the courage to ask us and we respond with a “fine” or “it’s ok” or some other sentence with less than 7 (short) words chances are good that we really want to talk. So, you think, what’s a guy to do? You ask a question, you get an answer, and you plan based on that answer. Who wants to read between the lines or guess what is really going on? What a waste of time, right? Wrong! When girls pull the short answers out during a conversation it is because we want you to put the effort in to getting us to open up. It comes from a place of feeling like you don’t usually care what we have to say so we want you to put some effort in to getting us to talk so we can be sure we will be listened to. Now those perceptive guys among you may have your hands up right now waiting to ask the obvious question… if a girl feels like she’s not usually heard isn’t that the REAL problem? Yes, yes it is, and one little talk won’t stop that feeling of being marginalized. In psychology we call this a learned response, a behavior that does not come naturally but rather has been developed through a process called social conditioning. You may very well be the most attentive boyfriend since the dawn of time but if her previous guys made her feel insignificant or unheard you’ll have to help her carry that baggage. Heck, you’ll have to help her unpack it and put it away! So when your girl replies with a curt little answer to your questions don’t take her at face value. Calmly and gently ask her a few more times. Once she feels like you will hear her nature will take over and, voila! You’ll be communicating.
The girlfriend code broken.
3. We want you to have your guy time.
It is such a myth that girls don’t like to let their guy just hang with the boys. It's a terrible lie perpetrated by relationship-phobes throughout the ages. It is totally untrue that we want you to give up your life to be with us. Think of it this way… when we met you and fell for you, you were (hopefully) single and your friends were a big part of your life. Take your friends away and a big piece of the guy we fell for goes with them. So we want you to keep your guy time. We know you need your friends and truth be told we need our friends too. That being said, obviously when you are single you have lots of spare time to spend with friends but when you are in a relationship some of that time is going to be taken up by your significant other (A.K.A.

us). That is only normal. It is normal for you to need your guy time and it is normal for you to want to spend time with us. If you find the right balance the guy-time issue quickly becomes a non-issue. It is when we feel like you don’t make as much time for us as you do for them or that you resent being away from your friends when you are with us that the stereotypical “girlfriend verses the friends” scenario takes the stage. It’s all about balance. Spending time with your friends or with us will never be an issue as long as there is a balance and as long as we never feel that they mean more to you than we do or that they come always first.
4. We want to know your friends but aren’t so sure you need to know ours.
I’m not going to lie; this is hypocrisy in its most raw form. We want you to bring us around your friends, we want to know them and we want them to like us, but we aren’t quite as crazy about you knowing our friends. The why of this is as simple as it is irrational and here it is… we want to know your boys so we can understand the kinds of things they may get you to do when we’re not around. In short, will they encourage you to cheat on us, will they get you doing reckless and dangerous things, and will they help you engage in self-destructive activities? What we want to know is if they will be good or bad influences on you. We also want to create a buffer; we want your friends to like us so that they won’t want you to lose us. If there is no tension between your friends and us then we don’t need to fear them asking you to choose between love and friendship. Now on the flip side, we don’t really want you getting all chummy with our friends because we don’t want them to fill you in on all of our dirty little secrets. As previously noted girls are talkers by nature and we don’t want them to let something slip that may make you raise an eyebrow in our direction. We also fear, but will never admit fearing, you wanting one of our friends more than you want us. It’s bad enough to lose your guy to another girl but when that girl was once a friend, well, the sting is even sharper. So allow us this hypocrisy. It’s irrational, that's true, but it’s also quite harmless.
5. We worry that other girls look better now that you are in a relationship.
Mike nailed the core of every girlfriend's relationship insecurity on the head when he brought up the GIGS (Grass Is Greener Syndrome). The idea that life is better on the other side is one of the most destructive forces in relationship world and girls feel that guys fall for it way too often. It is a great fear of ours that once you can’t have other girls you will suddenly want them all. It leads to a lot of unfounded jealousy brought on by innocent comments on your part or casual non-flirtatious conversations with other girls. So what’s a guy to do? In a perfect world you’d stop interacting with other girls altogether but our rational super-ego knows that’s not realistic. What you need to do is follow these three simple rules; 1) never pay more attention to another girl than you do to your girlfriend, 2) never comment over and over how hot/cool/nice/fun another girl is, and 3) if you meet a great girl while you’re in a relationship hook her up with one of your buddies (also known as taking her off the market and getting her out of our face). And should you ever really get the itch to jump the fence and live life on the other side... just do it! Don’t lead us on, don’t cheat on us, don’t sneak around, just end the relationship. If it ends up being a GIGS fueled mistake… oh well, consider it a hard lesson learned and leave us alone... we won't want you back anyway!

FLIRT SMS

2007-08-28T11:34:00.000-07:00

Most beautiful...
If God would have created something more beautiful than you he would have kept it to himself.

Maths ...
During maths I was thinking of you but I cannot calculate how much I love you!!

Can u see me?
Can you see me? no? Turn around, can you see me now? no? Turn again, can you see me now? I can see you because you have a special place in my heart!

In love ..
You can fall from a mountain,you can fall from a tree,but the best way to fall,is to fall in love with me

I Found you ...
When the night comes, look at the sky. If you see a falling star, don't wonder why,just make a wish. Trust me it will come true,'cause I did it and I found you.

One for me!!
You're eyes are soft en tender,as sweet as they can be.There's one thing you must remember, you are the one for me!!!

Deaf ...
It is deaf and it wants to have sex with you...................... What do you say?
Who dares wins :)
I want triplets You want twins.Lets get in bed and see who wins!

UIR Horny
Roses are red.voilets are corny.when i think of you babes it makes me so HORNY!!!

Smile please ...
I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So, would you smile for me?

You are ...
Hey, is your dad a terrorist? Cos baby, you're the bomb! Your daddy must have been a hunter because you're a fox!

Listed -
I looked up sexy in the dictionary today and your name was listed

When to visit?
If your right leg was thanksgiving and Your left leg was Christmas could I meet U between the holidays?

Been to moon?
Have you ever been to the moon ? no ! sit on my rocket and I will take you there
Maths ...
Do you like maths?if so add a bed subtract ur clothes divide your legs and we can multiply!

Hello
The word HELLO means: H=How are you? E=Evrything alright? L=Like 2 hear from you! L=Love 2 see you soon O=Obviously I miss you..SO, HELLO

You are angel
It must have been a rainy day when you were born..Heaven was crying 'cus it lost its most beautiful angel!

What is love ...
Luv is a sensation dat is caused by temptation.a boy puts his location in a girls destination.do u get my explanation or do u wanna demonstration?

Love
Love is Sweet, Love is sad, but with me in bed Love is the best thing you ever had.

How I do it .....
Press down......down more......ok......more......yes......ahh.......yes......almost there......yeah......oh shit......harder......so good! Yeah, that's textual intercourse!

I asked Santa -
If a big fat man creeps into your bedroom one night and stuffs you into a bag, Then do not worry 'cause I told Santa I wanted you for christmas!

Your Smile........
Hey! Cutie... ..yes YOU! you're smiling again Its bcoz i told u that ur CUTE hey...... Sometimes we need 2 lie Just to make some one

LOVE SMS PART=2

2007-08-28T11:31:00.000-07:00

Best ever!
if someone asks me if ur good...ill say ur not...if they say ur better ...ill say ur not...why shud i say ur good or better coz ur the best i ever had...
Untill tommorow
How can it be that I am sad and happy at the same time ... it's because I know ... that you aren't back until tomorrow05 Mar 2004
I Love You!
A special smile a special face.a special someone i cant replace.i luv u i always will. u've filled a space no one can fill!
The moment
I have liked many but loved very few.yet no-one has been as sweet as u.I'd stand and wait in the worlds longest queue.just for the pleasure of a moment with u.
Love is BAD!!!!
Luv is a basta** it can treat u lik dirt Theres always a risk of u getting hurt.Luv is restless & luv is a flirt.Luv has places to go and people to hurt.
I Love You!
What is a flower without the sun, what is the earth without the sky. What am I without you, that is why I tell you .. I love you
Best friend ..
I hope that you finally understand, that I will love you untill the end, because your not just my girl, you are also my best friend!

Looking 4 .....
I'm lukin 4 a word. I'm lukin 4 a whole new word. I'm lukin 4 a word. I'm lukin 4 a word dat nobody knows. I'm lukin 4 a word. I'm lukin 4 a word dat says...dat you are the best !!!
Me or your life?
One day u'll ask me: "whats more important to u- me or ur life?" ill say "my life" and u'll go and leave without even knowing that u are my life.
Golden Star
If I die and go to heaven, I put your name on a golden star. So that all the angels can see how much you mean to me !! I love you
My angel...
I asked an angel 2 watch over u, but she back sooner than expected!i asked y?She said "an angel doesnt need 2 watch over an angel!
Dont want 2 Miss u
If you live to be a hundred , I want to be a hundred minus one day , so I don't have to live a day without you...
You are angel
I asked God 4 a rose & he gave me a garden.I ask God 4 a drop of water & he gave me an ocean.I asked God 4 an angel &he gave me u
My thoughts
By following my heart I came to you, I only forgot to take something back with me. For my thoughts are still with you
Scared to loose you
1st time i saw u i was scared 2 touch u.1st time i touched u i was scared 2 kiss u.1st time i kiss u i was scared to luv u.but now dat i luv u im scared 2 lose u!
I'm very Rich !
I opened my purse and found it empty.i reached in 2 my pocket and found a few coins then i searched my heart and found u!dats wen i realised how rich i am
Love Forever
Love is like a golden chain that links our hearts together and if you ever break that chain youll break my heart 4ever!xxx
How can you ...
How can u tell the rain not 2 fall wen clouds exist?How can u tell the leaves not 2 fall wen the wind exists?How can u tell me not 2 fall in love wen u exist?
10000 ways -
10000 words 1 cud say.10000 wishes 1 cud pray.10000 miles legs cud walk.10000 sounds a mouth cud talk.10000 times ill b true.10000 ways 2 say i luv u!
Me & You! -
It takes 2 to tango.2 to kiss.2 to talk & remenisce.so many good things cum in 2 & one of those things is me & u!
When I met you...
True luv is hard 2 find.Special 1-1 of a kind.But the luv inside of me is true.It appeared the day i met you!
What is Love?
LOVE is something beautiful,a desire, a feeling that one would like to catch. LOVE is the feeling that makes you feel alive. LOVE is something that may never go away!
Falling in love...
You can fall from a bridge, you can fall from above, but the best way of falling, is falling in love!
You are the one..
What I feel for you,is really true. You got to know,I need you so. When you are gone,I can't go on. Can't you see, that you are the only one for me?
My lover
Hearts could only love for a while, feets could only walk for some miles, clothes won't 4ever be in style, but having U as my 'lover' is worthwhile ....
Moving Sutra ...

Loving is not how u forget but how u forgive, not how u listen but how u understand, not what u see but how u feel, and not how u let go but how u hold on.

I miss you ...
U mUz bE tiReD cOz u haF bEEn runNinG thrU mY miNd, u gOttA bE a thiEf coZ u haF stOleN My hEaRt n i muZ haF BeEn a bAd shOotEr CoZ i kEep miSSing u...

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ..
Luv not 1, Luv not 2 Luv d 1 who luvs u true, Luv not 3, Luv not 4
Luv d 1 who luvs u more Luv not 5, Luv not 6 Luv d 1 who really sticks,Luv not 7, Luv not 8 Luv d 1 who really waits...

The Spaces ...
The SPACES between ur FINGERS were created so that another person's fingers would fill them in. Hope U found the hand that u r meant 2 hold on 4ever..
Fate ...
Fate has brought us together, to meet, to know and to part is the saddest thing in life... I £ove You...

Never ending circle
If you love someone, put their name in a circle instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.

Wont let you go
I know its wrong 4 me 2 fall 4 u,but i cant get through it & if choosing right means letting u go...then let me be wron Except you ... -
I would give up happines to never see you sad, I would give up eternity to be with you always, I would give up my life so that yours would be new... I'd give up everything... except U...

Sun & Moon -
Everyone wants 2 b the sun dat lights up your life.But I'd rather b ur moon,so I can shine on u during ur darkest hour when ur sun isn't around.

Everything ...
U promsd 2 tke cre of me bt u hrt me, u promsd me 2 brng me joy bt u brought me tears, u promisd me ur luv bt u gave me PAIN....ME? i promised u Nothing but i gave you EVERYTHING!!!!

I Miss You !
I don't wanna feel the way that I do, I just wanna be right here with you, I don't wanna see us apart, I just wanna say straight from my heart I miss you
Always on my mind...
Sometimes words are hard to find, to form that perfect line to let you know you're always on my mind!

Three things ...
I love three things: the sun, the moon and you, the sun for the day, the moon for the night and you forever.
i love the 'y'
i love the 'u'
i love the 'o'
put them together
and i love 'you'
It's me!
Love is hard and will always be, but remember somebody loves you and that one is ME !
g 4ever...

TOP 50 SPORTING COUPLES

2007-08-28T11:28:00.001-07:00

The 50 sporting couples
From the curious courtship Sol Campbell enjoyed with Martina Hingis to the striking partnership Karren Brady has with Paul Peschisolido, sport has long inspired heart-melting love stories. Tom Dart profiles the most memorable. Below is the link

http://www.netscape.com/viewstory/2007/08/17/50-greatest-sports-love-stories/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.timesonline.co.uk%2Ftol%2Fsport%2Fmore_sport%2Farticle2263845.ece&frame=true

LOVE CALCULATOR

2007-08-28T10:59:00.000-07:00

Check name compatibility at Love Calculator!

inspiration quotes

2007-08-25T12:46:00.000-07:00

"If you can DREAM, you can DO it"

"Your talent is God's gift to you.
What you do with it is your gift back to God"

" In three words I can sum up everything
I've learned about life: It goes on. "

Let your heart guide you. It whispers, so listen closely.

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens: but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”

Every man dies. Not every man truly lives.

Don't go through life, GROW through life.

People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.

" Shoot for the moon. "
Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.

The future depends on what we do in the present.

The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.

Obstacles don't have to stop you.
If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up.
Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Fear less, hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours.

" When it is dark enough, you can see the stars."

Vision: the art of seeing things invisible.

Out of clutter, find Simplicity. From discord, find Harmony.
In the middle of difficulty lies Opportunity.

A weed is no more than a flower in disguise.

There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living
at what you love; there’s only a scarcity of resolve to make it happen.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

It is never too late to be what you might have been.

" The best and most beautiful things in the world "
cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

" Many people will walk in and out of your life, "
but only true friends leave footprints in your heart.
To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger.
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault;
if he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events;
small minds discuss people. He who loses money, loses much;
he who loses a friend, loses much more; he who loses faith, loses all.
Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,
but beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me. . . you brought another friend. . .
and then there were three. . .
we started our group. . .
our circle of friends. . .
and like that circle. . .
there is no beginning or end. . .
yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is a mystery.
Today is a gift.
That is why they call it the present

Dance as though no one is watching you.
Love as though you have never been hurt before.
Sing as though no one can hear you.
Live as though heaven is on earth.

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you,
but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.

Begin each day as if it were on purpose.

Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake.

Do what you can with what you have where you are.

To generalize is to be an idiot.

You can complain because roses have thorns,
or you can rejoice because thorns have roses.

No bird soars too high if he soars with his own wings.

Be a good listener.
Your ears will never get you in trouble.

Begin somewhere.
You cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do.

Do not go where the path may lead,
go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

Life has a practice of living you, if you don’t live it.

The worst bankrupt in the world is the person who has lost his enthusiasm.

People only see what they are prepared to see.

Imagination is the highest kite one can fly.

The trouble with being in the rat race is that
even if you win, you’re still a rat.

" You may be disappointed if you fail, "
but you are doomed if you don’t try.

He who angers you conquers you.

WE CAN ONLY LEARN TO LOVE BY LOVING.

motivation quotes

2007-08-25T12:44:00.000-07:00

There are no short cuts to any place worth going.

The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do.
The hard part is doing it.

If you’re going to be able to look back on something and laugh about it,
you might as well laugh about it now.

If you really want something
you can figure out how to make it happen.

Knowing is not enough; We must apply.

Willing is not enough; We must do.

Think it more satisfactory to live richly than die rich.

He who is devoid of the power to forgive
is devoid of the power to love.

Common sense is instinct.
Enough of it is genius.

People with goals succeed because they know where they’re going.

The measure of a man’s real character
is what he would do if he knew he would never be found out.

Failing to plan is planning to fail.

" Don’t be afraid your life will end; "
be afraid that it will never begin.

Silent gratitude isn’t much use to anyone.

The only place you’ll find success before work is in the dictionary.

We make a living by what we get,
but we make a life by what we give.

The one thing that doesn’t abide by majority rule
is a person’s conscience.

Learn to listen.
Opportunity could be knocking at your door very softly.

Love and you shall be loved.

A closed mind is a dying mind.

I was taught that the way of progress is neither swift nor easy.

" I wasn’t afraid to fail. "
Something good always comes out of failure.

Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fail.

Every passing moment is a chance to turn it all around.

What lies behind us and what lies before us
are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

It is common sense to take a method and try it.
If it fails, admit it frankly and try another.
But above all, try something.

I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells.
Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living.

Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart.

Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.

It's never too late to have a happy childhood.

You see things and say 'Why?';
but I dream things that never were and I say 'Why not?' "

Learn by practice.

You don’t just stumble into the future.
You create your own future.

All kids are gifted;
some just open their packages earlier than others.

One who makes no mistakes never makes anything.

Yesterday is history,
tomorrow is a mystery,
and today is a gift;
that’s why they call it the present.

Desire nothing for yourself,
which you do not desire for others.

Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings.

Control your emotion or it will control you.

Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear
but around in awareness.

Patience is the companion of wisdom.

Whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well.

No gift is too small to give, nor too simple to receive,
if it's chosen with thoughtfulness and given with love.

Always laugh when you can.
It is cheap medicine.

We never listen when we are eager to speak.

Success is never permanent, Failure is never the end.

" Learn as if you'de live forever, Live as if you'de die tomorrow "

SHOW UR LOVE IN DIFFERENT LANGUAGE

2007-08-25T12:39:00.000-07:00

Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
Albanian - te dua

Arabic - Ana Ahebak / Ana Bahibak

Armenian - yes kez shat em siroom

Assyr- Az tha hijthmekem

Alentejano(Portugal) - Gosto De Ti, Porra!

Bahasa Malayu - (Malaysia) Saya cinta mu

Basque - Maite Zaitut

Bengali - Ami Tomake Bahlobashi

Bavarian - I mog di

Bisaya - Nahigugma ko nimo

Bosnian - Ja te volim (formally) or volim-te

Bulgarian - Obicham te

Bulgarian - Obicham te

Burmese- chit pa de

Cantonese - Ngo Oi Nei

Chinese - gnoy oy na
Goi Oi Lei (Hongkong)
Wa Ai Li (Taiwan)

Cambodian - Bon sro lanh oon

Catalan - T'estim (mallorcan)

Croatian - LJUBim te

Czech - miluji te

Danish- Jeg elsker dig

Dutch - Ik hou van jou

English - I love you

Esperanto - Mi amas vim

Estonian - Ma armastan sind / Mina armastan sind (formal)

Farsi - Tora dust midaram

Filipino - Mahal ka ta

Finnish - Minä rakastan sinua

French - Je t'aime

Gaelic - Tá mé i ngrá leat

German - Ich liebe Dich

Greek - S'agapw

Greenlandic - Asavakit

Gujrati - Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon

Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia 'oe

Hebrew - Ani ohevet ota

Hindi - Main tumsey pyaar karta hoon / Maine Pyar Kiya

Hmong - Kuv Hlub Koj

Hungarian - Szeretlek

Hokkien - Wa ai lu

Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta

Icelandic - Eg elska thig

Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu

Italian - ti amo

Indian - Mai tumase pyar karata hun (male to female) Mai tumase pyar karati hun (female to male)

Irish - taim i' ngra leat

Japanese - Aishiteru

Javanese - Kulo tresno marang panjenengan (formal)
aku terno kowe (informal)

Kapangpangan - Kaluguran daka.

Korean - SA LANG HAE / Na No Sa Lan Hei

Kurdish - Khoshtm Auyt

Laos - Chanrackkun

Latin - Ego te amo

Latvian - Es mîlu Tevi

Lithuanian - As Myliu Tave

Lebanese - Bahibak

Lingala - Nalingi yo

Lojban - mi do prami

Luo - Aheri

Macedonian - Te sakam

Mandarin - Wo Ai Ni

Malteese - Inhobbok hafna

Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Saya cinta mu

Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg

Persian - Tora Doost Darem

Pig Latin - I-yea Ove-lea Ou-yea

Polish - Kocham Cie

Portuguese - Eu te amo (Brazilian)
Eu amo-te (continental)

Punjabi - me tumse pyar ker ta hu'

Romanian - Te iubesc

Russian - Ya tebya liubliu

Serbo-Croatian - Volim te

Sign language -
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Slovenian - ljubim te

Swedish - Jag älskar dig

Swiss German - Ch-ha di gärn

Spanish - Te quiero / te amo / yo amor tu

Swahili - Naku penda

Tagalog - Mahal Kita / Iniibig kita

Tamil - Naan Unnai Khadalikkeren

Telugu - Nenu Ninnu Premisthunnanu

Thai - Khao Raak Thoe / chun raak ter

Turkish - seni seviyorum

Ukranian - Yalleh blutebeh / ya tebe kohayu

Urdu - Mea tum se pyaar karta hu ( when a guy says it)
Mea tum se pyar karti hu (when a gal says it)

vietnamese - Toi yeu em

Vulcan - Wani ra yana ro aisha

Yugoslavian - Ya te volim

Zazi - Ezhele hezdege

Zulu - Mena Tanda Wen

how to make a gal laugh

2007-08-25T12:37:00.001-07:00

1. Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . Always tell her you love her every second of the day.

6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.

9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

12 . Play with her hair.

13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.

17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

18. Carve your names into a tree.

19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

20 . Give her piggyback rides.

21 . Bring her flowers

22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.

26 . Kiss her in the rain.

27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.

ROMANTIC SONG LYRICS

2007-08-25T11:35:00.000-07:00

Aerosmith - Don't Want to Miss a Thing

ABBA - The Day Before You Came

Al Green - Me and Mrs. Jones

Bryan Adams - I Do It For You

Celine Dion - My Heart Will Go On

Cher - After All

Chris Isaac - Wicked Game

Delaney & Bonnie - Never Ending Song of Love

Diana Ross and Lionel Richie - Endless Love

Dusty Springfield - Just a Little Loving

Eric Clapton - Layla

Eric Clapton - Wonderful Tonight

Frankie Ford - Sea Cruise

Jamie Foxx - Unpredictable

Keyshia Cole - Love

Luther Vandross - Here and Now

Luther Vandross - Promise Me

PLEASE MAIL ME IF YOU HAVE BETTER CHOICE . celebrate_love@hotmail.com

FLIRTING QUOTES

2007-08-25T11:33:00.000-07:00

I brought my library card, and I'm checking you out.

Do you have a map (No why?) I keep getting lost in your eyes

If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

Is it hot in here or is it just you?

I'd ask you for a light, but you've already lit my fire.

Do you believe in love at first sight... or should I walk by you again?

Nice dress can I talk you out of it.

Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?

I'd look good on you!

Check the girls clothing tag then say - That's what I thought...made in heaven

My boys over there bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some drinks with their money?

When God made you, he was showing off!

You had me at hello.

Ask a woman for the time. (Tells time) . Thanks. I just wanted to be able to remember the exact moment that I met you.

Excuse me, do you have any raisins? How about a date?

Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.

Shall we talk or continue flirting from a distance?

See my friend standing over there? He wants to know if you think I am cute!

You look like a girl that has heard every line in the book, so what's one more going to hurt?

How much does a Polar Bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. Hi!

Hey, don't I know you? Yeah, you're the girl with the beautiful smile.

TOP TEN HINDI ROMANTIC SONGS

2007-08-25T11:03:00.000-07:00

HERE I HAVE LISTED TOP TEN HINDI ROMANTIC.

10.TUMSE MILKAR{PARINDA}
9. JAB KOI BAAT
8. KABHI NA SUKOON AIYA
7. HUM BEWAFAA HAKIS NA THE
6. KAREEB AA {ASHIQ BANAYE APNE }
5. PYAR KAR KE { PYAR KE SIDE EFFECT}
4. KABHI KABHI { KABHI KABHI }
3. KYA KHUB LAGTI HO {DJ SUKETU}
2. MAAN KI LAGAN { PAAP}
1. JAB SAMNE TUM { JAGJIT SINGH}

FRIENDS IF YOU HAVE MORE BETTER NAMES THEN PLZ MAIL ME AT celebrate_love@hotmail.com

TEENAGER ROMANTIC MOVIES

2007-08-25T01:56:00.000-07:00

WE COLLECT SOME ROMANTIC MOVIES WHICH TARGET THE TEEN AGE LOVERS .

Step Up (2006)

Just Friends (2005)

A Cinderella Story (2004)

The Princess Diaries 2 (2004)

The Prince And Me (2004)

The Girl Next Door (2004)

Dirty Dancing Havana Nights (2004)

Chasing Liberty (2004)

A Guy Thing (2003)

A Walk to Remember (2002)

40 Days And 40 Nights (2002)

Summer Catch (2001)

Crazy/Beautiful (2001)

The Princess Diaries (2001)

Save The Last Dance (2001)

Boys and Girls (2000)

Down to You (2000)

She's All That (1999)

Never Been Kissed (1999)

10 Things I Hate About You (1999)

Romeo And Juliet (1996)

Say Anything (1989)

Can't Buy Me Love (1987)

Some Kind of Wonderful (1987)

Pretty in Pink (1986)

LIST OF ROMANTIC MOVIES OF LAST 5YEARS

2007-08-25T01:47:00.000-07:00

ARE YOU SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR PARTNER . THEN WHY NOT WATCH SOME MOVIES WITH YOUR PARTNER . SOME ROMANTIC MOVIES

THE ROMANTIC MOVIES OF 2007
Because I Said So

Catch And Release

Knocked Up

Music And Lyrics

Norbit

THE ROMANTIC MOVIES OF 2006

A Good Year (2006)

Failure To Launch (2006)

Imagine Me & You (2006)

Just My Luck (2006)

My Super Ex-Girlfriend (2006)

Scoop (2006)

She's the Man (2006)

Something New (2006)

Step Up (2006)

The Break-Up (2006)

The Holiday (2006)

The Lake House (2006)

The Last Kiss (2006)

THE ROMANTIC MOVIES OF 2005

A Lot Like Love (2005)

Are We There Yet (2005)

Bewitched (2005)

Brokeback Mountain (2005)

Broken Flowers (2005)

Can't Buy Me Love (2005)

Fever Pitch (2005)

Hitch (2005)

Just Friends (2005)

Just Like Heaven (2005)

Mr and Mrs Smith (2005)

Must Love Dogs (2005)

Pride And Prejudice (2005)

Prime (2005)

Rumor Has It (2005)

Shall We Dance (2005)

The Perfect Man (2005)

The Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants (2005)

The Wedding Date (2005)

Wedding Crashers (2005)

THE ROMANTIC MOVIES OF 2004
50 First Dates (2004)

A Cinderella Story (2004)

Along Came Polly (2004)

Before Sunset (2004)

Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason (2004)

Chasing Liberty (2004)

Closer (2004)

Dirty Dancing Havana Nights (2004)

Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind (2004)

Intolerable Cruelty (2004)

Laws Of Attraction (2004)

Little Black Book (2004)

Love Me If You Dare (2004)

Shaun Of The Dead (2004)

The Girl Next Door (2004)

The Notebook (2004)

The Prince And Me (2004)

The Princess Diaries 2 (2004)

Wimbledon (2004)

Win A Date With Tad Hamilton (2004)

THE ROMANTIC MOVIES OF 2003

A Guy Thing (2003)

Alex And Emma (2003)

Boat Trip (2003)

Bringing Down The House (2003)

Cold Mountain (2003)

Deliver Us From Eva (2003)

How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days (2003)

Just Married (2003)

Love Actually (2003)

Something's Gotta Give (2003)

ENJOY LOVEEEEEEE

MORE LOVE QUOTES

2007-08-25T01:42:00.000-07:00

Love comes in many colors, giving a sky to all its emotions. From happy moments to tearful thoughts, love conquers all. It is one emotion that shines in all eyes for all ages.

uess what a four year old child said about love!!! “I love my granny because she saves me from all the scolding and gets goodies for me even when I'm grounded. She never gets angry on me and is always ready to tell stories. That's love, you know.”
Everyone has a Saying on love – There are Cute Love Sayings, Sweet love Sayings, Inspirational Love Sayings, True Love Sayings, Sad Love Sayings, Funny Love Sayings etc. Love is such a beautiful feeling. You may love your Friends and develop Love Friend Sayings or you may be separated from the dear one and have Lost Love Saying.

Its nearly impossible not to have a saying on love. You may just have a short love saying, but you will have something to say on love.

We'll dive on all the kinds of sayings on love from all over the world – Italian Love Sayings, Latin Love Sayings, Japanese Love Sayings. Read all the true words of love through the innumerable sayings. Discover your own way of I love You Sayings through our terrific propositions.

So come, this Valentine let’s celebrate this eternal love with love sayings and quotations.

Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only what you are expecting to give. Katherine Hepburn

Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination. Voltaire

Love is all we have, the only way that each can help the other. Euripides

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit. Peter Ustinov

Love is infallible; it has no errors, for all errors are the want of love. William Law

Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever. June Masters Bacher

Love is not blind - it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less. Rabbi Julius Gordon

Love is friendship caught on fire.

And ever has it been known that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation. Kahlil Gibran

A woman's heart is like fine china: chipped, it's still beautiful; broken, it can cut right through you.

Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on earth. John Lyly

"...Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend." Martin Luther King, Jr.

True love will never fade unless it was all a lie

The shortest distance between two points is a straight line while the shortest distance between two hearts is Love Itself. Austin Ogwu Chinuwa

Just before we die, nothing else matters in this world, except love.

Love needs to display all its entire splendor, like a peacock, before it can be appreciated.

"Let not the hours pass by in the dark. Kindle the lamp of love with thy life." - Rabindranath Tagore

"As long as you always hold someone in your heart, you will never lose him." Snowman (Jack Frost)

"People love others not for who they are, but for how they make them feel." Irwin Federman

“If one begins to look for love, he will find it. If he puts any conditions on love, there will be obstacles." The Shariyat-Ki-Sugmad Bk1

"Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." Franklin P. Jones

So come let’s fall in love this Valentine with these romantic love sayings and make our loved ones feel cherished, honored and valued.

let me love u {tragic}

2007-08-25T01:41:00.000-07:00

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualise any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!

Before the guy can realise, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.
The End."

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.
Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

LOVES NEVER DIE

2007-08-24T11:27:00.000-07:00

This is a personal account of a ghost story that occured over 10 years ago.
This "true experince" firml supported my theory that our departed loved ones can convey messages through dreams.

Back in 1989, being a fresh graduate Psychology graduate, I landed a job in
the personnel department in one of the goverment offices in Quezon City. A male co-worker, Jun, was 11 years older than me. He became one of my friends while working there. Jun was king, loving, and romantic. He was the breadwinner of his family. His parents ang relatives liked me a lot. Being single and unattached, he courted me in 1990. I accepted his marraige proposal during the latter part of that year.

My parents did not approve of our relationship and when the first quarter of 1991 came, my parents made me quit my job. My dad, being a military man, even threatened Jun to Jun to stay away from me. To make our long story short, I left my job. I lost track of Jun I bussied myself with the family business. Basically, I went on with my life and tried to forget about him.

On the morning of June 2, 1994 I recieved a telegram from his aunt, saying that Jun had died the day before June1, 1994. Shocked I crumpled the short note and hurriedly phoned his aunt for confirmation. She told me that when we parted, Jun resigned from his job and drunk heavily each day. He naglected his death as well as his body. Pneumonia had caused his sudden death. "You know Jun. Everyday and up to his remaining hours, all her wanted was to see you. During his final moments, while suffering from delirium, he even told us that he still loves you very much," Jun's aunt said.

Sadly, my parents wouldn't allow me to go to his wake. I mourned quietly inside my room. There even came a point where I convinced myself that he wasn't dead.

On January 1995, just before my birthday, Jun visited me in a dream. I dreamed that I was inside a hospital room. I was wearing a hospital gown and I was sitting at the foot of my bed. Jun suddenly appeared before me, clothed in bright lights. We communicated mentally. I told him it wasn't true that he was gone. He replied that I must accept the fact that he was already dead but it didn't mean that he as leaving me. "I will always be beside you, gaurding you," he said

I cried saying, "I'm sorry I didn't have the guts to fight for our relationship."

He comforted me and soothed me by shrouding me with his bright light. The bliss I felt was interrupted by voice calling hi name "It's time for me to go," he told me. "But what about me?" I asked, tears in my eyes. " I will be here for you always," he replied,"and I will be waiting for you there. And don't ever forget that love you very much."

After saying this, he vanished before my eyes. I woke up crying. After this accident, I finished began to accept his death. And whenever I'm depressed I feel his presence beside me I know somehow out there he's still waiting patienly for me.

PLZ DONT WAIT 2 SAY I LOVE U

2007-08-24T11:26:00.001-07:00

Billy loved Katie with all his heart. But he never told a Single soul. Katie secretly loved him too. But she thought she would never have a chance with him. Billy asked his friends what they think of her and his friends thought she was gay. They didn't like her at all. So Billy just went along with them. They all made fun of her and made her feel really bad. Katie was so upset.

One day they followed her home from school making fun of her the whole way home. Once she got inside her house she dropped to the floor cringe. She had a crush on Billy since 3rd grade. She didn't know what to do. When Billy got home he felt real bad about what he had done. So he decided to go to Katie's house to tell her he was sorry and that he really loves her.

When he got there he knocked on the door no one answered.

The door was open so he walked in. He walked into the living room and found Katie lying dead on the floor. She had slit her wrists. Billy was so up set . He knew it was his fault she killed her self. And now he could never tell her how he really felt.

The lesson of this story is: Don't wait to until the last minute to tell someone how you really feel. Because it just might be too late. And don't always go by what your friends say, follow your heart.

Do you like this love story?

facebook.com DON'TS

2007-08-24T11:23:00.000-07:00

Facebook Don'ts

Don’t leave the default Facebook privacy settings as set. Go in and customize your privacy. Of particular importance, limit what people can see when you poke or message them before you have added them as a friend. The default setting allows people who are not friends yet and whom you poke or message to see your entire profile. To customize your privacy click the “privacy” link in the top right hand corner, click the “Poke, Message and Friend Request” link and adjust the settings accordingly.
Don’t leave the poke option on if poking is getting to you. You can turn it off by going to the “privacy” link in the top right corner, click on the “Search” link and uncheck the “Poke You” box.
This will stop people who are not your friends from poking you. Sorry, friends can poke at will.
Don’t post the year you were born. This lets people know how old you are and if you are unfortunate enough to run in to an online predator you are more likely to become a target if they know you are young. Also, since Facebook reserves the right to sell your stats and email address putting your full birthdate up could set you up for more spam than you'd otherwise receive, since your birthdate identifies your age group demographic which is a primary demographic identifier. Spammers often ask for specific age ranges when setting up targeted email lists, omitting the year you were born makes it less likely that you'll be put on such a list.
Don’t be afraid to allow some people to only see a limited version of your profile. Limited profiles show things like your profile picture, your name, your basic info and your friends lists but do not show things like your wall, your interests, your contact info and any photos or videos of you that are not used as in your profile. People who should only be allowed to see a limited profile include; people you do not know well offline, people you meet through Facebook (also known as Facebook friends), people who claim to be from your past but whom you can’t quite recall, people you add as friends because you have a mutual friend, and people you recognize by face but can’t recall by name (or vice versa, know by name but can’t recall by face). To set up a limited profile click the “privacy” link in the top right hand corner, under the “Limited Profile” heading on the bottom right click the “Edit Settings” link and check only those things that you want to have appear on your limited profile.
Don’t ever announce on your wall, or on any public wall, where you plan to go or who you plan to go with. Cyber stalkers are a real threat and if you have one this tells them where to find you in real life.
Don’t be afraid to join public groups about interests you share. Just be careful what you post on the walls of these groups.
Don’t be afraid to make new friends on Facebook. Facebook friends aren’t much different than pen pals of yesteryear. Just be sure to limit the access Facebook friends have to your profile information. This is easily done by clicking the “limited access to my profile” box when you add a friend you have made on Facebook.
Don’t accept Facebook invites to events. Even if you plan to go put down “maybe attending” or “not attending” even if the event is listed as a private or closed events. When you say you are “attending” an event it let’s everybody on your friends list know you where you will be. If you feel must accept invites set your “privacy” settings to omit this information from your mini-feed so people won’t be told you plan to attend.
Don’t use Facebook to bully, harass, spread rumors, challenge fights or otherwise incite violence. Facebook is a social utility, not an anti-social utility.

facebook.com DO'S

2007-08-24T10:50:00.000-07:00

FACEBOOK DO’S

Do use your real name since the idea behind these sites is for friends to stay in touch and reconnect. If you use a fake name people you knew in elementary school, from summer vacations, from real-life social groups you have left and friends who moved away, will not be able to find you.
Do use a real picture of you in your profile (at least once). For the same reasons you should use your real name, a real picture of you is a must. People can’t tell if you’re you from your name alone. That being said, keep the picture you post modest, racey pictures just encourage creepers (a Facebook term for stalker) to contact you.
Do search out your name, you may be surprised to find out how many people have the same name or a similar name. Also, searching your surname can reconnect you with long lost relatives.
Do click on the profile picture of people who send you friend requests.
Even if you don’t recognize them from the photo currently on display previously used photos are displayed in an archive and you may recognize the person from a different picture.
Do create photo albums with privacy settings so only your friends can see them. You do this when you first create the album under the “Share This Album With” option. You can change the settings in the future if you want but it is always best to limit who can see the more intimate moments of your life.
Do tag the pictures you post so that friends know when you have put their picture online. It is just common courtesy to let people know when you have put their likeness on the internet. If they don’t like the picture or don’t want people to know it is them they can easily remove the tag by going to the picture and clicking the “remove tag” link by their name.
Do use a public server email address, like Hotmail or Google Mail, when setting up your account and in your contact information. Using your service provider address can let a cyber stalker find you in the real world and will be more likely to get your name on a targeted spam list (in it's User Agreement Facebook reserves the right to sell your information, including your email address and demographic stats, to outside agencies).
Do be tolerant when you get friend requests from strangers, especially if your photo is not of you, believe it or not you are likely not the only person on the planet with your name. Just hit reject and don’t worry about it, people are not notified when you reject their friend request.
Do limit who can see your full profile. You can click on the “privacy” link on your Facebook profile and under “Profile” set who can see which entries. Set it so that only friends can see things like your pictures, your wall, and your personal and contact information.
Do create a private group for you and your close friends. Make the group administrated and by invite only and only allow friends/members to join whom you know in real life. If you have lots of online or Facebook friends set up a seperate group for them and follow internet safe habits when posting messages to that board.
Do use Facebook Applications. They jazz up your page and are fun. Our favorite Facebook Applications; iLike, Horoscopes, Facebook Mobile, Video, Audio, Slideshows, PicNik, and Extended Info.
Do limit your Facebook Platform. Click on the “privacy” link in the upper right corner, click on “Applications” and then click on “Other Applications” and uncheck everything that appears under the “What Others Can See Via the Facebook Platform” heading. This limits how Facebook can use your information. If you leave it in its default setting (all boxes checked) you are agreeing to allow Facebook to use [u]all[/u] of your information, however they want, including selling your stats for demographics reasons or selling your email to spammers lists. Note, if you have added any Facebook Applications you will not be able to block all your information, your name, networks and friends list will still be made available.
Do limit the type of email notifications that come to you from Facebook. Tired of the millions of Facebook emails you get each day? Limit them by clicking on the “account” link in the top right corner, clicking on “Notifications” and uncheck everything you don’t want to be notified of via email. If you uncheck all of them no Facebook emails will go to your inbox.
Do report any threats of violence or other inappropriate posts or images, including posts about after school fights or threats made against specific people, to Facebook and to the proper real world authorities like school officials, parents and police. You can report abuse to directly Facebook by clicking on the “Report” link located under all posts and pictures that are added to Facebook. For more help with Facebook abuses go to the “help” link at the bottom of your “home” page and click on “Safety.”

plz also read don'ts for facebook

what if u will not withh me {sms}

2007-08-23T13:58:00.000-07:00

if ur askin if id hurt u da ansa is nevaif ur askin if i luv u da ansa is 4eva.if ur askin if i want u da ansa is i do.if ur askin wot i value most da ansa is u

if i could die early i would ask God if i could be your guardian angel, so i could wrap my wings around you and embraces you whenever you feel alone...

if i die 2nite i go with no regrets if its in ur arms den i kno i was blessed but if ur eyes r the last thing i see den i know the beauty heaven holds for me

If luvs a disease den im very ill.but i dont want medicine i wont take no pill.i will suffer dis illness cos it makes me see exactly how much u mean 2 me!

If i were a tear in ur eye i wood roll down onto ur lips.But if u were a tear in my eye i wood never cry as i wood be afraid 2 lose u!

If Love & Friendship could be brought or sold as if they were Stocks & Shares.those wise enough to invest in you SEXY would all be millionaires!!!

If water was a kiss id send u the sea.if a hug was 1 leaf id send u a tree if luv were forever id send u eternity!

If i rote ur name in d sky wind wood blow it away.if i rote ur name in d sea waves wood wash it away.But ur name is engravd in my heart where nothin can touch it!

if u love me like u told me please be careful wiv my heart- u can take it jus dont break it or my world will fall appart

If a kiss was a raindrop i'd send u showers.if a hug was a second i'd send u hours.if a smile was water i'd send u a sea.if love was a person i'd send u me!

friendship sms

2007-08-23T13:56:00.000-07:00

sum friends e worth bein thrown,sum r good 2keep,sume r 2 b treasured 4ever;i think u r the one 2 be thrown in the treasure box 2be kept 4ever

wherever you go, whatever you do, you know ill always be there for you, so if youre alone , theres no need to fear, just give me a call and u no ill be here! x

On a silent night when friend r few, i close my eyes and fink of u, a silent nite, a silent tear, a silent wish,dat u were here!

dnt snd any msgs,i dnt wnt 2 c u,2 hear ur voice,2 think of u,2 keep in touch wid u!!coz da doctor advised me 2 keep away from sweets :)

stars have 5ends, squares have4 ends, triangles have3 ends, lines have2 ends, life has1 end, but i hope our friendship has no end

Although its quite a statement, Well it happens 2 b true. The best friend i ever had, Im glad 2 say its u!

Smiles 'n' Tears, Giggles 'n' Laughs, Late nite calls 'n' Cute fotographs, ill b rite here till da day of ma death best friends forever till ma very last breath!!

The years will come the years will go but with each 1 i wil always know whichever way the road may bend u wil always be my best friend

when it hurts 2 look back & ur scared 2 look ahead, just look beside u & i will b there.

i cant txt u roses or fax u my heart.id email u kisses but wed stil b apart.i luv u 2 pieces n just wish ud c dat i care 4 u so much coz u mean da world 2 me.

Many ppl will wlk in and out of ur life.but only tru friends will leave foot prints in ur heart. . . . .u left urs in mine -x-

The recipe of friendship: 1 cup of sharing.2 cups of caring.3 cups of forgiveness & hugs. Mix all of these together to make friends 4ever.

A friend gives hope wen life is low.A friend is a place where you can go.A friend is honest- A friend is true.A friend is precious.A friend is u!

A GOOD FRIEND ISLIKE A 'COMPUTER''ENTERS' UR LIFE.'SAVES' U IN DA HEART.'FORMATS' UR PROBLEMS.'SHIFTS' U 2 OPPORUNITY & NEVA 'DELETS' U 4RM DA HEART

"In ur darkest hour wen ur fed up & blue.just remember this I'll always be there 4 u.Im no angel N cant change ur fate.but I'll do anything 4 u coz ur my m8."

ur a mate wiv a heart of gold.how much u mean to me can never be told.ur sum1 2b talked bout so sweet and true.1 in a million dats u

A gun can kill some1.fire can burn some1.wind can chill.anger can rage till it tearz u apart.but da power of ur smile can heal a frozen heart

There is a gift that gold cannot buy a blessing dats rare & true.dats d gift of a wonderful friend like d friend dat i have in u!

Sum1 sum where dreamz of ur smiles & whilst thinking of u says life is worthwhile.so wen ur lonely remember its true.that sum1 sum where is thinking of u.

like a fallen star u fel into my life.u made me smile wen thingz werent rite..if hugz were water id send u the c.n sail away 4eva jus u n me.

R we friends or r we not.U told me once but i 4got.of all d m8s ive eva met ur d 1 i wont 4get.& if i die b4 u do i will go 2 heaven & wait 4 u!

God in heaven God above please protect the friend i love.Sent wiv a smile:-) sealed with a kiss.i love my friend whos reading this xx

A very special m8 of mine.in my heart all da time.to c u wiv a happy smile makes my life feel worthwhile.warm & carin ur feelins true.im glad i av a m8 like u!

Life can be hard & not always fun.But as night brings dark mornin brings sun.Wen life gets tough & no1 seems 2 care.Give me a call coz I'll always b there!

Tiny starz shinin bright its time 4 me 2 say goodnite.so close ur eyes & snuggle up tight im wishin u sweet dreams 2nite!

Uve touched my heart uve touched my soul.bcos of u I now feel whole.U'll always b my closest friend.u'll b in my heart 2 the very end.

Dreams r2b 4goten reality to b lived.desires 2b fulfilled & destiny 2b reached.where it began.where will it end.friends from da start.friends til da end!

Friends r angels that come from above.sent by god 4 me 2 luv.so wen u r lonely sad n blue remember ill be there for u!

LOVE SMS

2007-08-23T13:49:00.000-07:00

Sweet as a rose bud bright as a star cute as a kitten thats what u are.bundles of joy sunshine and fun you are everything i luv all rolled into 1

Thought of u 2day,dats not new,thought of u yesterday + da day b4 2, ill think of u 2mor + my whole life thru & ill think of u 4eva coz i think da world of U

I have liked many but loved very few.yet no-one has been as sweet as u.I'd stand and wait in the worlds longest queue.just for the pleasure of a moment with u.

A special smile a special face.a special someone i cant replace.i luv u i always will.uve filled a space no one can fill!

Girl ur clever girl ur smart.girl ur like a work of art.girl ur sexy girl ur fine.d only thing u aint is mine!

i luv ur eyes i luv ur smile.i cherish ur ways i adore ur style.Wot can i say?ur 1of a kind & 24/7 ur on my mind!

As I lie awake in my bed.All sorts of thought run through my head,Like why do I love u as much as I do.den I realise its because u r u!

there was an headcount of angels in heaven,pandemonium strucked discoverin dat an angel is missin,pls call heaven &tell dem ure safe wit me,my sweet angel

I believe that God above created u for me to luv.he picked you out from all the rest cos he knew id luv you the best!

I love so much my heart is sure.As time goes on I love you more,Your happy smile.Your loving face No1 will ever take your place

Top 10 Most Romantic Books

2007-08-23T08:41:00.000-07:00

Top 10 Most Romantic Books

Get inspired or just relax with a romantic read! Below is our reader's top 10 romantic book choices.

10. The Mastery of Love
by Don Miguel Ruiz

9. Song of Solomon
Source: Bible

8. Memoirs of a Geisha
by Arthur Golden

7. Pride and Prejudice
by Jane Austen

6. Good in Bed
by Jennifer Weiner

5. Love Poetry Collections
no author specifically mentioned

4. The Kama Sutra
by Alain Daniélou
The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
by Lance Dane

3. Gone with the Wind
by Margaret Mitchell

2. The Notebook
by Nicholas Sparks

1. Romeo and Juliet
by William Shakespeare

Is there a book you think I should included?

Top 10 Famous Romantic Couples

2007-08-23T08:34:00.000-07:00

Top 10 Famous Romantic Couples

THIS RANKING IS DONE BY INTERNET POLLS. AROUND 3000 INTERNET USERS TAKE PART IN THIS POLL .

1. Tim McGraw & Faith Hill

2. Will Smith & Jada Pinkett-Smith

3. Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie

4. Romeo & Juliet

5. Paul Newman & Joanne Woodward

6. Tom Cruise & Katie Holmes

7. Beyoncé & Jay Z

8. Reese Witherspoon & Ryan Phillippe

9. President Ronald Reagan & Nancy Reagan

10. Jennifer Lopez & Marc Anthony

TOP 20 ROMANTIC MOVIES

2007-08-23T08:20:00.000-07:00

Top 20 Romantic Movies

AFTER HAVING A SURVEY TO 2000 PEOPLE OF AGE RANGE AROUND 18 TO 30 THIS RESULT IS BEING PUBLISH.
The next time you're in the mood to cuddle and watch movies together, pick one of these top 20 favorites!

20. When Harry Met Sally
Starring: Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan
(1989) - Synopsis

19. You've Got Mail
Starring: Tom Hanks, Meg Ryan
(1998) - Synopsis

18. Moulin Rouge
Starring: Nicole Kidman, Ewan McGregor
(2001) - Synopsis

17. Dirty Dancing
Starring: Jennifer Grey, Patrick Swayze
(1987) - Synopsis

16. Love Actually
Starring: Bill Nighy, Gregor Fisher
(2003) - Synopsis

15. Somewhere in Time
Starring: Christopher Reeve, Jane Seymour
(1980) - Synopsis

14. An Affair To Remember
Starring: Cary Grant, Deborah Kerr
(1980) - Synopsis

13. Serendipity
Starring: John Cusack, Kate Beckinsale
(2001) - Synopsis

12. City of Angels
Starring: Nicolas Cage, Meg Ryan
(2001) - Synopsis

11. Love & Basketball
Starring: Sanaa Lathan, Omar Epps
(2000) - Synopsis

10. Romeo & Juliet
Starring: Leonardo DiCaprio, Claire Danes
(1996) - Synopsis

9. An Officer and a Gentleman
Starring: Richard Gere, Debra Winger
(1982) - Synopsis

8. Gone With The Wind
Starring: Clark Gable, Vivien Leigh
(1939) - Synopsis

7. Love Story
Starring: Ali MacGraw, Ryan O'Neal
(1979) - Synopsis

6. Sleepless in Seattle
Starring: Tom Hanks, Meg Ryan
(1993) - Synopsis

5. A Walk To Remember
Starring: Shane West, Mandy Moore
(2002) - Synopsis

4. Pretty Woman
Starring: Richard Gere, Julia Roberts
(1990) - Synopsis

3. Ghost
Starring: Patrick Swayze, Demi Moore
(1990) - Synopsis

2. Titanic
Starring: Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet
(1997) - Synopsis

1. The Notebook
Starring: Tim Ivey, Gena Rowlands
(2004)

Know of another romantic that should be on this list? Let me know .

A TRUE REAL FUNNY STORY

2007-08-21T23:45:00.000-07:00

A real story happens to a girl in chennai recently.. must read

Her name was Priya. She was hit by a lorry. She is working in a call centre. She has a boy friend named Shankar. Both of them are true lovers. They always hang on the phone. You can never see her without her handphone. In fact she also changed her phone from Airtel to Hutch, so both of them can be on the same network, and save on the cost. She spends half of the day talking with shankar. Priya’s family knows about their relationship. Shankar is very close with Priya’s family. (just imagine their love) . Before she passed away she always told her friends “If I pass away please burn me with my handphone” she also said the same thing to her parents. After her death, people cant carry her body, I was there. A lot of them tried to do so but still cant , everybody including me, had tried to carry the body, the result is still the same. Eventually, they called a person who know to one of their neighbours, who can speak with the soul of dead person , who is a
friend of her father. He took a stick and started speaking to himself slowly.
After a few minutes, he said “this girl misses something here”. then her friends told that person about her intentions to burn her with her phone. He then opened the grave box and place her phone and SIM card inside the casket. after that they tried to carry the body. It could be moved and they carried it into the van easily. All of us were shocked. Priya’s parents did not inform Shankar that Priya had passed away. After 2 weeks Shankar called Priya’s mom. Shankar :….”Atte, I’m coming home today. Cook something nice for me.Dont tell Priya that I’m coming home today, i wanna surprise her.” Her mother replied….. “You come home first, I wanna tell you something very important.” after he came, they told him the truth about Priya.
Shankar thinks that they were playing a fool. He was laughing and said “dont try to fool me - tell Priya to come out, i have a gift for her Please stop this nonsense”. then they show him the original death certificate to him. They gave him proof to make him believe. (Shankar started to sweat) He said… “Its not true. we spoke yesterday. She still calls me. Shankar was shaking. Suddenly, Shankar’s phone rang. “see this is from Priya, see this…” he showed the phone to priya’s family. all of them told him to answer.he talked using the loudspeaker mode. all of them heard his conversation. Loud and clear, no cross lines, no humming. It is the actual voice of Priya & there is no way others could use her SIM card since it is nailed inside the grave box they were so shocked and asked for the same person’s (who can speak with the soul of deal perosns) help again. He brought his master to solve this matter. He & his master worked for 5 hours. Then they discovered one thing which really shocked them…

Hutch has the best coverage. Whereever you go, our network will follows!!!

WHAT I NEVER SAID TO YOU !!

2007-08-21T14:08:00.000-07:00

I LOVE YOU ......I never got the chance to say these words to you. And here I am, right now, going through the biggest metamorphosis ever. I still can’t understand how did u manage to become my world, but u simply did. And now it hurts, it hurts me to the limitless limits of pain having lost u…
Actually I don’t know if I ever really had you. But I can say, that the most wonderful day of my life has been that April day when I went out with you.
It all started as a game. And I can’t forgive myself that I didn’t hold u tight in my arms when u were falling for me, but I simply let u go…
I so much regret this, and I guess this will stay with me forever. But I guess this is the price I have to pay…
Here I am now, living in some grey, shapeless world. I feel so lonely, so weak without you. I have lost the joy in my eyes. I forgot to smile. I don’t feel the wind I can’t see the sun. People are so invisible to me. They are so much out of my world. It’s only u in there. Or should I say a lingering shadow of your memory…?
And the worst is that I am getting used to living in this lonely, sad and scary world.
I am getting used to waking up in the morning with your face in my mind and going to sleep with the same mirage. I know I have lost u forever, but what hurts me the most is the killing silence between us.
I don’t know how I can stand to meet u, look into the depth of your eyes and not being able to say u sth, at least to ask u a simple “why”, while inside my soul is screaming so loud…
I had never thought that love could hurt so much, even physically…Yesterday I haven’t been able to do anything else, beside thinking of you. And I was lying in my bed, and crying bitter tears about you and wanting so much to be in your arms. And for some moments my tears froze. I couldn’t cry for some instant, cause I felt like a strong hand was stringing me tight in my chest and I couldn’t breathe. It seemed like somebody had hit my chest and was trying to grab my heart. Actually, I would have liked that to happen, so I wouldn’t suffer for you anymore. But it is just impossible, cuase my heart is shattered in thousands of pieces right now and I don’t know where to find them. Now u are my missing air to breathe, you are my missing light, you are my missing world. I feel torn apart, drowned in some cold icy water… Have u ever felt like being on the peek of some steep rock, with rain and wind and storm hitting you all over, but you just don’t realize that?
I did. I realized that yesterday it was raining and I was holding a closed umbrella in my hands. I was so much out of the world that I was getting soaked wet by the rain and still didn’t feel that. I so hate myself for letting love come to me…Why can’t I hate you? Why, why, why….???
Go to the window babe. Open it and have a look at the sky right now. Maybe it can help u understand what does my life look like right now: scattered black clouds creating a thick scary mist…. U know what’s left from me? Only some foggy image on a broken mirror. Maybe some day you would like to pick these broken pieces up and put them apart, so u can recall what u can do.
………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

Give me your hand and save me from this hell. Now I am really convinced I will go to heaven when I’ll physically die, because I lived enough hell here.
You will never get to know this but you were my first, last and everlasting love. If I could I would hate you with all my strength, but I can’t…so I guess it remains no other choice to me, but love, love, love u in this killing silence. Yes, my baby, u put an end to my life. I am condemned to carry you with me, wherever I am. And I love u, love u, love u , love u, love u….And I still can’t breathe, and I still don’t smile, and I still don’t feel…
I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u, I love u I.
You will never get to read this. This is my first and last love letter I ever write. With some simple move u turned me into ashes, and from now and on, I will just pretend to carry on living…. I think I will simply get used to live in the tragedy of my heart. Welcome to my pain!
YOURS FOREVER….

LOVE QUOTES

2007-08-21T13:28:00.000-07:00

LOVE QUOTES

" When you are in love, an hour apart feels like a lifetime, but together, that same hour feels like a second in Paradise. I want to be in Paradise forever."....Love Quotes by Amandina.

If I tell you I love you, you'll think I'm lying. But I'd rather tell you I love you and let you think I'm lying than say I don't love you and know for sure I'm lying.

* Sometimes, the love we are looking for is right in front of us - too close for the eyes to see. So, close your eyes and let your heart see for itself....Love Quotes by Shiela.

"If the winds were to whisper their greatest words from now until eternity, they still wouldn't describe your outstanding beauty"....Quote by Chris.

"If I die never having loved, then I die never having lived"....Love Quotes by Alison.

"I love you takes seconds to say but a life time to commit to"....Love Quotes by Judy.

"If you could only see the way he loves me, maybe you would understand why I feel this way"....Love Quote by Beth.

"You are so beautiful, you are my destiny, you are my complete soul, after all you are me"....Love Quote by Agnes.

"If I was a flower in total darkness your love would be the little beam on light that keeps me alive"....Love Quote by Sarah.

"All I ever wanted, all I ever needed is here in my arms"....Love Quotes by Anita.

"The greatest flower scent in my garden is your heart"....Love Quotes by Susan.

"There's this rose in a garden that I can't part. For you are that rose and the garden is my heart"....Love Quote by Lisa.

"you know when you are in love with a man when he can make you feel like a lover, a mother, and a child,"....Quotes by Daisy.

"if i could tear out my still beating heart and then say i love you that would prove that even with out a heart i will still love you"....Love Quotes by Danny.

"Now it is my turn to go out and find someone that will love me the way i loved you, but ten times more true to the heart."....Love Quotes by Brandi.

"He is the breath, life, and very air that I breathe.For this man I would die, ...for this man I love"....Quotes by Nicole.

"If you really believe it was meant to be, you just have to be patient, no matter what obstacles get in your way"

"You're in my most precious of thoughts & my destiny is held in your subtle hands"....Quotes by Nazeer.

"I Love You more than Yesterday, but not as much as Tomorrow"....Love Quotes by Amy.

If love hurts, then love some more, if love hurts some more, then love even more, if love hurts even more... then love till it hurts no more....Love Quotes by Gino Jalbuena.

"Don't wait for the one you could live with, wait for the one you can't live without."....Love Quotes by Brian Littrell.

"No man is worth your tears, and the one that is, won't make you cry."....Love Quotes by Brian Littrell.

"When you like someone, put their name in a circle, not a heart, cause hearts can be broken, but circles go on forever."....Love Quotes by Brain Littrell.

"When you're in love, you carry his heart in yours".

"The only thing I hate in you is the hurt I cause you."....Love Quotes by Nadine T.

"If you were only a dream that ends when the sun comes up, Id been praying the moon to stay forever"....Love Quotes by Beatriz Inzunza.

"If you live to be a hundred I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."....Love Quotes by Caroline.

"If it's not mutual love, it's not really love"....Love Quotes by Grissel.

"If you plan it, it's a fling. If it just happens; it's ment to be."....Love Quotes by Aileen.

"A mighty pain to love it is, and 'tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain."....Quotes by Abraham Crowley.

"You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without."....Quotes by Unknown.

"A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous."....Quotes by Ingrid Bergman.

"He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals."....Love Quotes by Benjamin Franklin.

"I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love."....

"True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen."....Love Quote by La Rochefoucauld.

"Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?"....Love Quotes by Christopher Marlowe.

"Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are."....Love Quotes by Houssaye.

"Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."....Love Quotes by St. Augustine.

"When we are in love we often doubt that which we most believe."....Love Quotes by La Rochefoucauld.

"The richest love is that which submits to the arbitration of time."....by Lawrence Durrell.

"There is no disguise which can hide love for long where it exists, or simulate it where it does not."....Quotes by La Rochefoucauld.

"A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love."....Love Quotes by Stendhal.

"There is no remedy for love but to love more."....Love Quotes by Thoreau.

"Love cures people - both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."....Quotes by Dr. Karl Menninger.

"To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best."....Love Quotes by William M. Thackeray.

"If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with"....Quotes by Unknown.

"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away."....Love Quotes by Alicia Barnhart.

"You call it madness, but I call it love."....Love Quotes by Don Byas.

When you love someone, it is like an ocean. It goes up and down, but is always there....by Michelle.

"Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever."....Quotes by Unknown.

Love is ... running into his arms, Colliding with his heart, And exploding into his soul....Love Quote by Unknown Author.

"you can plan a pretty picnic, but you cant predict the weather"....Love Quote by Lauren aka lo*lo.

"What do you do when the only person who can keep you from cryrng is the one who is making you cry?"Love Quotes by Lissa.

If you love me like you told me, please be careful with me heart. You can take it, just don't break it. Or my world will fall apart.

Love doesn't make the world go around; love is what makes the ride worthwhile....Love Quotes by Franklin P. Jones.

Kissing is a sacred treasure two people when they love each other.

Don't ever go back to find what you left behind.. it's there for a reason....

Absence diminishes little passions
And increases great ones,
As wind extinguishes candles and fans a fire....Francois de La Rochefoucauld.

"I tell you 'I love you' not because I need you, but rather I need you because of the fact that I love you"....Brett C.

"True love never goes away it just fades and comes back"

"You know you love someone when no matter what anyone tells you or what = he has or hasnt done for you...you don't care and still love him"

"Is it possible to hate the one you love so much?"

It is not how long love is .. But how long love last .. As true Loves never looses it's true space in one's heart.

Never measure love as it is never meant to be measured !

Love sees all; and because it sees all, it is willing to see less....Love Quotes by EllieMay.

"Love is like a fire, it burns for awhile, but eventually goes out, and all your left with is the memory of its warmth"....Quote by Ryan Cabrales.

THE LOST LOVE

2007-08-21T13:27:00.001-07:00

Lost of My Love

From the first day that I am laid my eyes upon her. I knew she was the one. From the endless night and the dreamful days. All I could do is think about her. I didn't know how love feels until i met her. She showed me the light, she showed me her love, she showed me my future. And today its all gone. Looking at her for the last time in my life. Feelings rush in my heart for her more stronger. Knowing she belongs to someone else. I just couldn't do anything. I couldn't touch her lips. OH GOD Its hurts so bad.

When I met her again for the final time. I hugged her so hard. Kissing her forehead. As I took her hand to the car. I couldn't stop looking at her. Closing her eyes as I place my love gift on her neck and Kissed the Pendant in the name of GOD. As we go to the movies hand in hand. Looking at her knowing she’s my first life. But also knowing she’s someone else. God it hurts so bad.

When I left her at the airport, All I can do was cry. Looking at her for the final time in my life. Hurt me more and more. she hugged me so hard that I felt she had the same feelings. But I knew she was just looking for my happiness.

I know she will be mine in heaven. And I shall wait for her. I promise, I will wait for you.